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28 M Los Angeles, CA

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  • Ages 21–39
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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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At times, I feel a bit like the apple in Carl Sagan's flat-land thought experiment; An extra-dimensional being perceived mostly by the shadows I cast, looking for companionship with more than one dimension.

A cosmic slow loris with a unicorn horn and a vellicating third eye that sees into the abyss.

A visual artist dealing in potent, deeply challenging artistic imagery. The "last of my kind" in a strange new land, driven to flourish in the company of something like me. I'm a sapiosexual, polyamorous, vegan, and lifestyle Dominant/Sadist. I value erotic expression, compassion, wellness, self-awareness, creative expression, and spiritual growth. Passionate advocate for social, economic, and ecological justice, feminism, workers rights, and solidarity.

As a practitioner of polyamory with a somewhat solo, non-hierarchical lean, I value a level of autonomy in my relationships while still remaining deeply committed to affection, communication, intimacy, openness, closeness, and loyalty. "Available" is a more suitable description than "single." I am happiest with a wide variety of romantic partnerships, role-defined relationship dynamics (D/s, M/s, Dd/lg, etc) , erotic friendships, and casual partners. Wildly gender fluid and inspired by the Divine Feminine Muse while remaining anatomically male, with sexual preferences best described as omnisexual, fluctuating, and evolving. More attracted to dynamics and scenarios than specific genders. Sorry all you thirsty little cisgender boys, unless you're a cute, queer, and super androgynous being or a beautiful FTM, I'm probably only interested in tying you up, locking "it" up, spitting in your mouth, and taking all of your fucking money. But if you're into that, I welcome your message. Currently the vicious little disciple of a Kinky Pagan High Priestess and leading a collared, consensually non-monogamous M/s relationship with my live-in slave.

I was born listening to The Dark Side of the Moon. Breathe. All at once dark, playful, intense, and passionate. INFP. A life's work in progress.

I may be wicked, wild, and almost completely feral, but don't let that deter you; I'm safe enough to pet.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard to lay the framework for the life I want here in LA. I am host to that special breed of wild ambition that compels a person to pack up their entire life into a shipping cube, learn how to build a car out of a heaping wreck of parts, and drive across an entire continent on fumes and dreams to start over from nothing, leaving everything and everyone they love behind in order to pursue what they're passionate about. So here I am, supporting myself with my art, playing in the dirt, and pursuing a lot of new opportunities that weren't available to me in Atlanta. As a visual artist, I'm honing my aesthetic, exhibiting my work and performing alongside artists I admire. I practice mindfulness, meditation, yoga, and I like to stay active because self-care is mission-critical. I'm an aspiring healer, a lifelong creative longing to master many new skills and share them with the world, to face new challenges and conquer them, to wrestle life to the ground and sink my teeth in, to master my self.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Prying your third eye open using photons and paint brushes with all the force of a crowbar.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My friend Jinx once told me that I "look like the super-villain son of every scientist who worked on the Manhattan Project. Slicked back hair. Boots polished to a mirror shine. Fever-bright eyes. A jawline that they simply don't make any more. In my treehouse doing science...filthy, dirty science."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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LITERATURE RELEVANT TO RELATIONSHIPS/SEXUALITY: Sex At Dawn, The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path (please feel free to present me with other required reading)

STUFF THAT BRINGS ME JOY: Slow Lorises, when Han shoots first, nice oil paints and brushes, the smell of gesso and turpenoid natural, Arches cover white, .3mm mechanical pencils, and moleskine. Cannabis, incense, the clicky sound of socket wrenches, the unmistakable smell of play-doh, the exhilarating feel of blast beats and bass drops. I adore lumens, photons, killowatts, manual transmissions, stage diving, smith and wesson model 100 handcuffs, ultra violet light, practical effects, animation, puppets, all things Jim Henson and Dr. Seuss, and shaving with a straight razor.

ART: Giger, Dali, Beksinski, Witkin, Rembrandt, Schiele, Nerdrum, Caravaggio, Van Eyck, Klimt, Hans Bellmer, Francis Bacon, Bosch, Alex Grey, Mark Ryden, Michael Hussar, Chet Zar, Peter Gric, Jeremy Geddes, on and on and on.

LITERATURE: Nietzsche, William S. Borroughs, Hunter S. Thompson, Kafka, Philip K Dick, Chuck Palahniuk, Mark Z. Danielewski, H.P. Lovecraft, J.G. Ballard, Clive Barker.

FILMS: I'm very passionate about film, I'm sure we'll have something in common here. Soft spot for Studio Ghibli, Akira, the brothers Quay, Coraline and Paranorman, Cronenberg, David Lynch, The Big Lebowski, Un Chien Andalou, Wes Anderson, and anything cerebral.

SHOWS: Adventure Time and Regular Show, Courage The Cowardly Dog.

MUSIC: classical, technical death metal, djent, funk, filthy/grimy/heavy bass music, trap, intelligent or surreal hiphop, dark IDM, grunge, psychedelic rock. Alice in Chains. Stone Temple Pilots. Nirvana (but not as much as Alice in Chains). Aesop Rock. Pink Floyd. Primus, anything Les Claypool does. Meshuggah. Animals As Leaders, Decapitated. Lamb Of God. Black Dahlia Murder. Stravinsky. Rage Against The Machine. Marilyn Manson. White Zombie. Arsis. Amon Tobin. Mantis. Tool. Allman Brothers. Led Zeppelin. James Brown. Queen. Funkadelic. Hendrix. Die Fokken Antwoord.

FOOD: Delicious, locally grown, organic, non-genetically modified, minimally processed, cruelty free, and sustainable.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without most things, but I could never do without Visual Art. Love. Companionship. Music. Tranquility. Cannabis.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why "Goodnight Moon" wasn't instead titled, "Goodnight Mush." To me, that's the funniest, most important part of the book.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Acting like the damned cat, unable to decide whether I want IN or OUT.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am irrevocably un-vanilla. I'm on fetlife as CataclysmBefalls.
You should message me if
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You're kinky, practice consensual non-monogamy, and 420 friendly.

Just a friendly FYI:
I am far more likely to respond to an engaging first message than to "likes," "stars," pleasantries, small talk, or "hi." Sending a thoughtfully composed message that conveys to me why I should consider getting to know you shows a confidence and initiative that I find desirable. I rather like being pursued. Approaching me with intellect, wit, sensuality, and seduction can be an effective means to arouse my interest.