inurashii
26 / m / straight / available
Boston, Massachusetts, United States
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charismatic, insightful, and warm
My self-summary Propose an edit
Hi, I'm Dog. I think you'll like me and I bet I'll like you too.
I'm new to the Boston area, having recently moved here from DC. As I am going through a transitional period in my life, I'm going to drop the snazzy wordsmithing and give you some useful basic facts, as the details may change soon.
I am a performer geek with a penchant for LARP (and other roleplaying), creative writing and theatre. I like to act, sing and dance. I also like video games and contra dancing.
I am polyamorous, and I do not think this makes me better than anybody who's not. I am handfasted to a wonderful girl who is married. This is ok.
What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit
I was an office mercenary, aka temp, but now I'm a barista at Starbucks.
I hope ultimately to do something creative with myself, and am working on a handful of writing/performance projects in the meantime. To wit:
The Age of Corporations, my fantasy/sci-fi universe,
Dark Line, the latest LARP that my girlfriend and I are writing,
The Christmas Revels, a yearly solstice celebration in dance and song, and
Threads of Damocles, a large LARP in which I am a continuity writer and cast member.
I'm really good at Propose an edit
Useful: Cooking, acting, singing, dancing, typing, writing, customer service
Interesting: Cuddling, hugs, love, figuring out useless technological widgets, LARP, and video games, especially rhythm games like Dance Dance Revolution, Pump It Up and In The Groove.
Weird: double-jointedness, controlled sleeping on public transit, monster noises and evil laughs.
The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit
This used to be my long hair, but it's short now. Maybe it's my
voice. I apparently
sound like a news
anchor.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit
I'm going to go with my three favorites of each. Books:
The
Ethical Slut, Zen and
the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Snowcrash. Movies:
Waking
Life, Hot
Fuzz, Dress
to Kill (Eddie Izzard). Musical
Artists/Bands: Armin Van Buuren, bt, Leahy, Foods: Tiramisu, Bulgogi, milk-soaked cake.
The six things I could never do without Propose an edit
games, food, affection, music, sex (just so you don't think I'm too
unique), my creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit
Stories. They fill my head. Characters, places, worlds, inventions, flora and fauna. No days go by during which I have not made something up.
Love, love, love. And topics derived from that.
Also, the Urbane Undead. Seriously, why don't we hear about more intelligent, polite zombies? I know they're out there.
On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit
Hanging with friends, always. Sometimes drinking, sometimes
watching a movie, sometimes just playing a rousing game of
Apples to
Apples or the dvorak card
game. I like to go clubbing but get the chance more
infrequently than I care for. I almost always spend fridays "out"
or at a party.
Sometimes I go contra dancing. More and more I
am out at a weekend-long LARP.
The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit
People actually call me Dog. Yes, in real life. Puppy, if they know me well. Colin, if that's too weird for them.
One thing that being poly on a match site like this does for a guy is that it teaches him to accept someone on whatever terms he or she would prefer. I realize that not everybody is going to be willing to get romantically involved with a person who will not stay 'faithful' to her. I am fine with this. I only ask that you refrain from degrading the choice I've made about my lifestyle. It tells me that you prefer assuming to learning.
You should message me if Propose an edit
If you've gotten this far, you might as well. I am fun to talk to.
My screenname on AIM is the same as my screenname here, but with a space between "Inu" and "Rashii". Feel free to contact me. :)
My personality awards
Questions He Cares About View all
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- Would you--for any reason--read your mate's email or pose as him/her online, without their knowledge and permission?
- · Yes, they shouldn't be keeping secrets anyway.
- · Yes, I'd be too curious not to.
- · Only if I suspected them of something.
- · No, I'd trust them and that would be invasive.
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- Is it wrong to sleep in the same bed as/cuddle with someone who is 'just a friend' (but the sex you're interested in) when you're in an exclusive relationship with someone else?
- · Yes, it's wrong
- · No, it's not wrong
- · Unsure / Maybe
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- If you were in a long term relationship and your partner gained weight, through means such as surgery recovery or childbirth, would you think less of them as a person?
- · No, my partner's weight is irrelevant to me.
- · No, my partner's health is what is most important.
- · Not if they are willing to work hard and lose it.
- · Yes, weight gain is so unattractive.








