invisispider
33 Portland, OR
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My self-summary
I don't really know what to say. I have an odd sense of humor that doesn't come off right in a context like this, and it doesn't seem like a good idea to get too serious or confessional. My pictures accurately portray who I am and what I'm about.

I feel happy and fulfilled in life and friends and work, but haven't had a satisfying romance in a long time. I guess it's because "hooking up" is not something I have ever thought was a good idea. I'm kind of a rare breed in this age. I'm not really all that compatible with the types of women I associate with. I'm often accused of "shooting myself in the foot" with my ideals. And I don't know, maybe my foot is just genuinely evil or dysfunctional. That's how I see it, anyway.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm a hardworking, intelligent, solid guy known in many circles to be a paragon of rationality and morality. Passionate artist to the extreme. I teach music, wail at vocals, piano, guitar, bass, production, film making, voicing characters (like in cartoons), and I'm also a science fiction/horror writer.
I’m really good at
I'm a funny guy and a serious man, whatever, dialectical thinker, idiot, loser, nervous Buddha kitten, jack of several trades, problem solver, lover boy, weirdo that does okay at faking normal or whatever the kids are into, video game nerd rock star. That about covers it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Let's talk about it!
The six things I could never do without
Hmm, I kind of pride myself on making do with whatever.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Boy, you name it. Spirituality, philosophy, music, funny things, nature, the arts, reminiscing, pop culture, my friends and stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Trying to stay away from drugs and alcohol if possible. Peace and love, good times, party animal yes, but don't see the need to cripple my emotions and cognition to get there. Believe me, I'm no puritan. Just trying to say promiscuity and intoxication are things I'd like to gently steer myself away from.
You should message me if
You're looking for a storybook romance I suppose, very little drama, not interested in suffering together. Been there, done that. Let's get past the point where we're window shopping each other as quick as we can, right?
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