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42 Fairfax, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

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Middle Eastern, Hispanic / Latin, White
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Three passions in my life are music, science, and working with children. I feel very fortunate to have carved out my own professional path integrating all three.

My world view was shaped to a great degree by working with an African warrior tribe for two years improving the local health care delivery. That experience gave me a better appreciation of how fortunate we are on this side of the world. Plus it was fun chatting with local farmers in Konkomba and making field recordings of their music.

I love seeing live music, attending lectures, and working in my organic garden. I am drawn toward genuine people who seek to better the world through kindness and compassion. I strive to be optimistic, mindful, and nonjudgemental, although I can be pretty sarcastic at times.

I'm looking to explore life together with someone that inspires me on a deep level. I have little interest in putting energy into something without long-term potential.
What I’m doing with my life
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WORK ~ I have a private practice working with children with autism and ADHD. I have created my own approach using music and the science of behavior to teach children how to talk and navigate through our social world.

MUSIC ~ Music is an important part of my life; listening to it, making it, dancing to it. I am a drummer on both drum set and hand drums, play rhythm guitar, am becoming a better singer, and really need to practice the piano more.

YOGA/MEDITATION ~ I have found this to be a great way to take care of my body and mind. I prefer to put Buddhist philosophy into action in my day-to-day life rather than wade in spiritual narcissism.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, honesty, and communication.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS ~ I love Mark Twain's sarcastic wit and forward momentum. I prefer non-fiction books such as Oliver Sachs' Musicophilia and Jared Diamond's Guns, Germs, and Steel, but also enjoy Tom Robbin's Jitterbug Perfume and Wallace Stegner's Angle of Repose.

MOVIES ~ I don't watch many movies, so when I do, I prefer to watch meaningful and well-thought-out ones. I would watch any of Martin Scorsese's movies.

SHOWS ~ I don't have a TV but I do watch clips/episodes of The Daily Show, Hardball, Real Time with Bill Maher, and SNL.

MUSIC ~ I listen to a wide range of music including world music, downtempo, bluegrass, blues, reggae, and classical. Some of my favorite artists include: Shpongle, Grateful Dead, Paul Simon, The Beatles, Bob Marley, Nicki Bluhm, Crooked Still, Ernest Ranglin, Souad Massi, Ali Akbar Khan, Ali Farka Toure, and Zakir Hussain.

FOOD ~ I love to cook and am always looking for new recipes to try out. My beautifully seasoned wok is one of my most treasured possessions. I especially enjoy eating out in Ethiopian and Indian restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to better serve the families that I work with and my garden.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends seeing live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My spirit animal is a penguin.
You should message me if
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... you are smart, interesting, and passionate about life.

... you believe in science. If you think climate change is a hoax or that vaccines do more harm than good, we would not be a good match.