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inwinterim

26 Des Plaines, IL Woman

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 12:22pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Aries
Status
Single
Speaks
English
My self-summary
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I'm a gypsy in spirit.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a full-time librarian and a part-time world traveler.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Languages. I'm fluent in Spanish and I'm just beginning to learn Portuguese.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My voice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Shadow of the Wind, The Paris Wife, A Room With a View, Lighthouse Keeping, Great Expectations, Los Cuentos de Eva Luna, Los de Abajo. All scholarly pride aside I loved the Harry Potter series as a kid and it still has a special place in my heart.

Movies: The Princess Bride, Midnight in Paris, The Blues Brothers.

Shows: How I met your Mother, Game of Thrones, True Blood, Coupling, Doctor Who.

Music: Juanes, The Killers, Coldplay, The Fratellis, Julieta Venegas, Sublime, Muse.

Food: I love food in general; except sea-food, jello, and anything with cream filling. Gross.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I hate myself for the answer to this question but the one inanimate object I can't do without is my iPhone; and may God have mercy on my soul.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Linguistics and etymology.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out for margaritas and guacamole with some friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like Spanish...in bed.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I've decided to take this opportunity to compile a guide for men in online dating who are interested in receiving responses from intelligent, well-educated women. It's important that you follow the following guidelines if you'd like to hear back from any of us, and that includes me. Due to the nature of gender expectations in our society, women receive about 15 messages on any given day (or even more if they're hotter than me). This means that if you want to hear back, you must set yourself apart. Below, you will find my fool-proof guide to making the first move in online dating;

1. Spelling: spell out every word (no 2s, Urs, or Us). Spell words correctly; learn the difference between too, to, and two, as well as the differences between their, there, and they're.

2. Capitalize: capitalize proper nouns and each word that begins a sentence.

3. Punctuate: you know this stuff, put your knowdge on display! Intelligence is sexy!

4. Write a longer message--while we get many messages, most are very short and offer little incentive to look at your profiles. Tell us something about yourselves, especially if you think we might have it in common. "Hey, how are you?" And variations thereof probably won't get you a response unless you're super good looking. Even if we have a lot in common, we probably won't realize it, because "how are you?" won't convince us to open your profiles.

5. Accept rejection gracefully. We've all been rejected, myself included. I know it's not fair that you guys have to deal with it way more often by virtue of being the ones who begin most conversations, but please: if you don't get a response, try not to take it personally, and understand that she's trying to communicate disinterest without having to verbalize it, which we typically feel would be more hurtful.

I hope you will all benefit from my well-intentioned advice whether or not you apply it to me. Best wishes!