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49 Santa Monica, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 24–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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I can initially seem introverted on the surface but I'm really just a big Dada salad of contradictions - I'm quiet, I'm wild, I'm highbrow, I'm lowbrow, I'm voraciously curious, intensely creative, extremely cerebral, bohemian, mildly eccentric--yet solidly lucid- I'm a '2' on the Kinsey Scale. I'm a writer (The Biz- journalism)- I love poetry and philosophy and art - and would like to meet fellow creators - or brilliant nerdy types - or maybe even someone who can speak Heideggerese- - How about the next female Einstein or Bill Mahr? A fellow David Bowie fan? A quote from Thoreau: "... I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived. I did not wish to live what was not life, living is so dear; nor did I wish to practice resignation, unless it was quite necessary. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life....."
What I’m doing with my life
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finally doing what I really want-
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
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A resemblance to certain red haired actors.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read too much to have any one favorite book- My favorite movies- also too many choices- love Cocteau's Beauty and The Beast, Orphee
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, books, books, books, books...oh okay- people- of course!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
whether we really can 'think' about Life, The Universe and Everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Is that we all have our 'private' side
You should message me if
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you want- (is this a trick question?)