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paadtarmick

27 / M / Straight / Single

Los Angeles, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 9:10pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 3″ (1.91m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have rewritten at least part of this thing about a dozen times now...which is maybe my private thing to confess...and I'm blowing it here. Oh well!

Born in Queens, raised primarily in Long Island, school in Boston, now living in Brooklyn, but travelling a lot for work.

I am an excellent listener.

I am an excellent talker.

I am extremely open about who I am, what I believe, and what I want.

I took one philosophy course in college. It was my favorite.

My second favorite was in clowning.

I equally value critical thinking and humor. And nothing impresses me more than someone that oscillates easily between the two.

I can find the funny in anything, or at least I try.

I spent NYE 2012/13 playing with light up swords and starting public dance circles. Completely sober. It was amazing.
What I’m doing with my life
Writer, producer, actor.
I’m really good at
In 2009 I ran a cabin at a camp for children with life-threatening and critical illness. There I learned the importance of maintaining composure & rational thinking no matter what, especially as a leader. I think I learned that lesson well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm 6'3".
I maintain eye contact during conversations.
I speak from the heart. (sounds corny, but, I do)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Pillars of the Earth; Dry; Running with Scissors; Blink; Good to Great.

Movies: Braveheart; The Wrestler; Crazy Heart; Die Hard 3; There Will Be Blood; Love Actually; Crazy Heart; He Got Game; Lost In Translation.

Shows: Breaking Bad; The Sopranos; The Office; The Wire; The Walking Dead.

Food: I'm a sucker for an awesome grilled chicken wrap.

Comedians (because I said so!):
George Carlin
Bill Cosby
Brian Regan
Eddie Izzard
Jim Gaffigan
Patton Oswalt
Bill Burr
Lewis Black
Chris Rock
Louis CK
Sebastian Maniscalco
Andrew Dice Clay

I don't listen to much music. And according to almost every other 20-something, I'm on my own here. I enjoy hip-hop & singer-song writer types, but my audio consumption for the last 7-8 years has been consumed by stand-up albums and podcasts.
The six things I could never do without
Sparkling Water
Toothpicks
Socks
Comfortable places to sit
Interesting Conversation
Delivery
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Greatness.
Where all the socks go.
The influence I want to have.
How to get to bed earlier.
The ways I can improve myself.
How the Knicks organization hasn't been disbanded by a miraculous act of God.
The next tweet.
Movies I want to make.
Speeches I'd like to give.
The interesting people I've recently met.
Business ventures.
On a typical Friday night I am
These days, good question. If not home or working, probably watching basketball at home. When I go out, it tends to be more on "off" nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The first time I watched The Notebook, I wept for the last 45 minutes straight.

This past Christmas Day, with Les Miz, the ENTIRE movie.

Just know that going in :).
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're a busy, independent-minded person that likes to laugh as much as she likes to speak in depth about any variety of subjects.

You can listen, empathize, challenge, share.

You really, really like to laugh :). (I know I said laugh already. I'm saying it more. It's important to me!)