I'm a geek, a musician and give a shit about not being self destructive. Apparently that's a rare combination? I don't get it.

The whole online dating thing is weird to me. I guess the dating scene is in general. The girls I've dated in the past are people I've met through school, work, mutual friends, etc. Things naturally came out of that or they didn't. With singles bars or this site it seems like there's an expectation from the beginning that two people might want to fuck. Which I think leads to a lot of creepiness, clinginess and general badness.

So: I'm looking for people that I have a connection to, that I can be friends with. Anything else that happens or doesn't, happens or doesn't.

I'm going to a few prep classes before grad school, working on writing fiction, playing/writing music, and running all the time so I can eat all the food.

being a dork, daydreaming, procrastination, creating things, self deprecation.

is that they think they've met me before. I don't know what that's about.

Lots of nonsense. This probably needs to be culled. Or pruned, if you like your metaphors hortological.

Books: The Farseer Trilogy, Cat's Cradle, Red Harvest, We, Moby Dick, Blood Meridian, Collapse, Song of Ice and Fire, Unbearable Lightness of Being, Shakespeare
Movies: American Beauty, Pan's Labyrinth, Blade Runner, Barry Lyndon, There Will Be Blood, Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind, Being John Malkovich, 12 Monkeys, Kurosawa's Dreams, Pulp Fiction, Children of Men, The Big Lebowski, The Third Man, anything Monty Python, anything film noir, anything with Vincent Price in it
Shows: The Sopranos, The Wire, Six Feet Under, Breaking Bad, Battlestar Galactica, Black Books, The IT Crowd, Seinfeld, Mad Men, The Venture Brothers, The Mighty Boosh, Flight of the Conchords
Music: The Beatles, Radiohead, Patti Smith, PJ Harvey, Bjork, Timbaland(well, some of his stuff), Boards of Canada, David Bowie, Elvis Costello, The White Stripes, Autechre, Aimee Mann, The Wu Tang Clan, Tegan and Sara, Portishead, Flying Lotus, El-P, Anita Tijoux, Rachmoninov, Nine Inch Nails, The Talking Heads, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, El-P, Cannibal Ox, Arcade Fire, Ennio Morricone, Bear McCreary, M.I.A., Antipop Consortium, CHVRCHES, Beethoven(!)
Artists: I like a lot of turn of the 20th century poster artists and illustrators, but Harry Clarke is my definite favorite.

And to prove my geek cred ...
Video Games: Shadow of the Colossus, Fallout 1, Silent Hill 3.

Food: Anything vegetarian. Seafood. Most things spicy. So Thai Food, pretty much.

Music
Art
My form of mild insanity
People who aren't afraid to be weird
Water
Air

the stories I want to write, the things I want to create, the things on that previous list. Well, not air. I don't really think about air.

not thinking about all the shit I need to do before Monday.

you're not afraid to admit you're weird and you're passionate about music or art or geeky shit or something other than the basic food/drink/sex/family stuff that pretty much everyone is passionate about.