Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
*Undergoing Update Early November- haven't finished "self-summary"
and "what I'm doing" categories*
I love all kinds of people. In identity politics, I am referred to
as MtF, queer, poly, kinkster, sub with a dutch immigrant family
background who's a whole lot of white fluctuating from lower middle
class to upper lower class, and a little bit mentally ill'in (not
like a villain except criminally sometimes :). Please be respectful
and not a douche when asking questions because other than that I am
pretty open. The douche will not be tolerated unless orifices need
I'm here for many different kinds of relationships. I am open to
doing a wide range of things. I just want to get out more since I
have moved back in with my parents due to being broke and such. I
like biking, being creative, theorizing and obscure acts of
rebellion. I love the anarchy by the way and love to upset binary
relations all in due time. If you are a kinky post-structuralist
then we will get along famously!
Werd to the big bird btw.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I go to school, I work bookeeping, I play a different mmo every
time you see me, I listen to hip hop and try to write some poetry
occasionally. Studying Conflict Studies and Human Rights with a
Minor in Women Studies.
I'm looking to meet new people and hang out with some old ones
more. I like reading or being on this website some times like right
now. Coincidence? Just looking to have more socializing I guess?
Whatever form that comes in.
I like talking about a lot of things by the way. Like the
raunchiest kinkiest sex to International Relations or Gender
theories. I actually like International Relations theory, which I
know should be shameful but it does me well. I also like
intertwining "intellectual" conversations with jokes about penises
and vaginas because its a funny juxtaposition (phallogocentric
jokes anyone? if anyone else see's power structures in rooms
[especially classrooms] as being penis shaped, let me know)
I swear, I smoke occasionally, I drink infrequently some times a
lot some times a little. I like to read and would love to do that
with someone if that's also your thing. I write poetry sometimes so
if anyone wants a writing partner I would be down. Or doing any
creative stuff together.
Friends to do stuff with, dating, casual NSA, coffee bitchings are
all equally good. I don't really see anyone being more important
than another in the long run. Right now hanging out with people who
like talking about stuff would be nice and maybe some sex. Just
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Trying to keep a baseline of respect in most conversations
-Staying open to possibilities
-Checking myself before I wreckity wreckity wreck myself?
-Not censoring myself in conversations (yet I seem to do it
splendidly in other areas)
-Buying cool underwear
-Buying cool socks
This how I really feel (skip if you do not care for thinking)
(Most of this is crap. I'm not actually "really" good at much. This
category implies you are better at certain things than the average
population. There's also the assumption that what you are good at
is indicative of what you are attune to as a person. I am good a
analytic thinking and yet this is a problem for me and not what I
see as my most genuine self. Take that OkCupid and shove it. I'm
trying to stop caring about the comparisons as much. I find the
constant comparisons harmful. I'm currently gaining many helpful
skills in my life but am not way exceptional at any of them.)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know, I've never noticed myself before? Except for in the
mirror after I get out of the shower and then I'm just like "Who's
that sexy girl in the mirror". I doubt this answers the question
but its all i know. (This is not how I act in the washroom but damn
it sounds funny and really I've never noticed myself so I wouldn't
be able to fill this out anyway. And instead you get a swell joke
so I think we all win in the end.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
-The Girl Who Played With Fire
-Anything you've written ;) unless its bad :)
-John Keats poems
-Run dog run
-Oryx and Crake
-A New Hope
-Empire Strikes Back
-Lord of the Rings Two Towers
-Everything You Ever Wanted to Know About Sex
-Phantom of the Opera
-Annie Hall (BEST MOVIE EVER!! OMFG AWWW)
-Ninja Turtles (Original)
Favourite People (Not in any order; I do not worship these people
but I find them neat):
-Others: I don't keep a list
-All my cats and two dogs
-Nirvana, NoFx, Dropkick Murphys, The Offspring, 90s
pop/alternative, Modest Mouse, System of a Down, The Postal
Service, Brand New, Broken Social Scene, The Beatles, Simon and
Garfunkel, An Horse, Queen (Freddy Mercury!), Coheed and Cambria,
Disney, Janis Joplin, B.B King, Teagan and Sara,
Anything! Few Excpetions!! (Exceptions include high lactose, gluton
and meat filled meals and maybe more)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Sex, Relationships, Good conversation, Air, Food, Laughing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-thinking too much (it explains the rest of this list)
-why my past relationships have ended and why I have a hard time
finding resolutions (that's a rough starter but its true)
-why people are a big ol' bag of dicks to each other
-my brain feeling funny (less and less recently though)
-things to write down someday (maybe soon?)
-whether my current life choices are benefiting my well being or
-how to meet cool people I'd get along with
-how to get up on time regularly/get to sleep regularly
-figuring out my sexuality and/or gender
-video games (which to play next or what the value is in
-new board games to pick up
-geek swag from the interwebs
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Reading, watching a movie, get togethers with friends, video games
w/ friends, video games solo, tea and a chat, sleep
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Stupid internet, I'd never tell you something like that. Plus quite
frankly it'd probably be hella morbid and no one wants to read
about that for a first impression. (Skeletons are at least 5th date
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You liked my profile and would like to chat about something I wrote
or want to know something more about me.
You want to have coffee/tea and/or go for a walk. Somewhere
interesting is always cool. See if we enjoy each other's company?
Somewhere interesting to meet a new person.
You have a fun question. If its a good conversation, its probably
worth talking about.
You think flirting is fun.
*Please don't message me if you're a sexist, transphobic,
homophibic, ableist, racist dick. I respect your right to live in a
way you see fit but I'd rather not interact with you at all. Please
feel some shame before sending blatantly degrading messages to
others as well. K Thanks
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