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31 M Berkeley, CA

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White, Other
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Trying to quit
Other, and very serious about it
Graduated from space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Being here now.

I am a local. Planted and grown in the bay. I was raised by my hippie grandparents in Richmond. I have had many great adventures and have endured many hardships. I know that you have to. So cheers to many more of both, as they are inevitable.

Deep, keepin it real, raw and goofy and striving for balance. I have a strong work ethic and an equally strong inner child that is often simultaneously in play. However as I seem to be moving forward in time away from my youth. I feel less thrilled and excited about participating in our corporately driven, expletive deleted, sick country. But make my peace with it by practicing random acts of being friendly, loving, silly and weird to strangers. I'm super sexually sensual, fiendishly fierce and friendly. I have a problem with authority. And I believe in a continual striving toward the ability to control my thought process, achieve my goals, grow spiritually and become a better me...not another sheeple.

Loving. Communicative, Intelligent. Passionate. Sensual. Open. Sweet. Expressive, Inner child showing. Loves family and friends. Driven. Creative. Likes books. Likes growing and becoming. Likes kids, Camping. Nature. Music. Art. Exploring. Learning. And
..... oh ya.. be awesome. =)

Oh and one more thing. We are equals. Honesty, communication and integrity please.

Oh and bonus points if you know what a Tardigrade is.

Oh and if money is more important than happyness then peace out. Or if spelling and Grammer rule your judgment of others... A large percentage of high IQ'd brilliant minds through history are terrible with spelling and grammer. Just sayin
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising a beautiful boy half time, co parenting with his 2 moms.

Yoga.. everyday, biking and hiking.... as often as possible, body surfing... When it's warm...oh ya.

I'm a collector of books, nick nacks and worldly trippy things.

I love thift shops, second hand stores, re-use depots and antique places.

I can fix almost anything MacGyver styles.

I play over 20 instruments and can play 3 hand drums plus circular breath the didgeridoo at the same time.

I've run a successful production company. I have over 10 inventions comming to fruition. I have been a social worker and have spent most of my life working with people with disabilities, the elderly, kids and the homless. I live in a beautiful victorian house in Berkeley. I own my own business and I do performance art.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Anything I put my mind to.

I am good at planning, packing, cooking, thinking, communication, cooperation, being creative, adventures, being active, being a dad, completing tasks, explaining, functioning in difficult situations, loving and puzzles
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My demeanor, my eyes, my smile. I'm friendly and talk to people everywhere I go... I don't know what people notice, I have never met myself from outside myself before.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Siddhartha, the ending of time, enders game, the way of the peacefull warrior, man myth and magic, krishnamurti, Ram dass, timothy leary, allan watts, philosophy, science, fantasy, spirituality.

One the movie, waking life, what the bleep do we know, the dark crystal, the labrynth. Princess moninoke, castle in the sky, teckonkingkreet, rosencrance and guildenstern are dead. Avatar, I like a lot if movies......

I don't really watch tv... but...
Fringe, ted talks, nature, nova, always sunny in Philadelphia, breaking bad, game of thrones, elementary, sherlock, almost human, there are others...

Way to much to list.. but..
Shpongle, beatles, bob marley, Radiohead, tool, led zeplin, dubstep, blackalicous, sts9, electronic, tipper, bassnectar, zap mama, camel, graceland, tom waits, balkan beatbox, vivaldi, holy mobil rounders, tin hat trio, madona, MJ. ... too many to name

I like food
Thai, indian, brazilian, korean, saturn cafe, barneys, the slanted door, spanish, mexican,
My favorite restaurant is Rivoli on salono ave.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Only six???
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The way in which I connect with and perceive the world around me

Our inevitable demise

The patterns of societal flux.

The universe, our place in it and cosmic mystic whispers.

Being goofy. ;-)

How to make change in the world

New places to explore and new activities to try

Art to make

Effecting the world

How tucked up the world is

How amazing, awesome and beautiful the world is.


On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Watching awesome movies and shows.

Cooking delicious tastebud nuances that dance upon you palette.

Or going out to worldy restaurants while I try to not think about where everything in my meal comes from, whether its organic, gmo, msg'd or worse, but surpassing these thoughts by enjoying the cornucopia of spectoral tastes that have entered my mouth face.

Making music with my band.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get crushes on lesbians and that I died once.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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You want to.
I know what I want when I feel it. I like things to unfold mutually. We are equals

I'm an open book

Be well.