A lot of people think I'm hilarious. A few people think I'm obnoxious. Some people think I'm brave, and while I certainly do exhibit that quality in many ways, if you get to know me you may find out the ways in which I am a total pussy.
I try really, really hard to see the awesomeness in all people. Sometimes I am successful. And sometimes I determine they are just assholes.
I am married, technically, at least in Canada, but my husband and I haven't been romantically involved in a few years. We have not divorced because there is not now, nor will there ever likely be, a need to do so. We are essentially roommates who have a child together. We share a home and parenting duties and we get along just fine. I know all of his girlfriends, and they are all awesome. He often meets the people I date. "Single" is an accurate practical description of my situation.
I tend to not favor monogamy, but I absolutely do not self-identify as polyamorous, and when people refer to poly/non-monog as a "lifestyle", I just...no. That's not me. I can expand on that if asked, but basically it boils down to feeling like it would be odd to define my life by such a thing.
I have met plenty of really awesome men on OKC. We're talking high quality humans...good people with whom I have had a ton of fun talking, dating, hanging out, making out, and banging. But after a year on here (this time around), I have yet to meet anyone with whom I really want to spend my talking/hanging/making out/banging time on anything resembling a frequent basis. And I'm more than comfortable with that. I'd also be more than comfortable with...not that. And that, folks, is the beauty of happily being me.