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54 Victoria, British Columbia, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 43–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 19
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm an easy going, kind-hearted soul who enjoys being with people, especially those who are reasonably intelligent, humorous and self aware. My tastes are simple. I'm happiest in nature, but also enjoy the urban life. I like to be active, especially outdoors, but I'm not a slave to the gym. All things in balance.

I don't own or particularly enjoy television. I find it far more interesting to geek around on the web, take photographs, go for a walk, stretch, play my guitar (badly), futz in my garden or even just watch the light change in the sky.... I'm easily amused and don't take myself too seriously. Well, most of the time. I laugh easily, and think our capacity for joy comes partly from understanding sadness.

I feel pretty strongly about doing what I can to be part of the solution, not the problem, when it comes to our environment and the state of modern civilization. In practice, this means small lifestyle changes that may not make a big difference - other than making me feel better.

I'm interested in genuine connections. Not into anything casual - not for moral reasons, I'm just busy and don't find them worthwhile. I'm ambivalent about this online dating world, so I haven't worked up a slick 'all about me' pitch. I'll add more later or better yet, in conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working full time. Practicing yoga. Attending a community development training program. Growing vegetables. Thinking about what I'm doing with my life.
I’m really good at
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Being a loyal friend
Keeping things light
Being serious
The first things people usually notice about me
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No idea.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like all kinds of music, especially if its live, but not a fan of metal, hard rock, punk or cheesy country. And silence. Silence is good.

Food? Ideally I like it real and happy. Local, organic fresh. No GMO, irradiation or mean-to-creatures factories is preferable. Was a vegetarian for 12 years. I'm not overly fussy. Just feel incredibly grateful that we have access to so much great food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the givens, like air, water, food, and shelter -
My bicycle
Wild and natural places
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The state of the world. The state of my world. The things that warm my heart and make me smile. When I can have my next nap.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies. Winding down from my week with some quiet time, writing papers for school, dinner with friends, or taking in some live music.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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That comes later.
You should message me if
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You're genuine.

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