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ismira
32 / F / straight / Single
Singapore, Singapore
The Skinny
- Last Online
- Join Date
- Ethnicity
- Asian
- Height
- 4' 11" (1.50m).
- Body Type
- —
- Looking For
- New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
- Smokes
- No
- Drinks
- Not at all
- Drugs
- Never
- Religion
- Islam and very serious about it
- Sign
- Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
- Education
- —
- Job
- Education / Academia
- Income
- —
- Kids
- —
- Pets
- Dislikes dogs
- Languages
- English (Okay), Malay (Okay)
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Your Notes
Edit your notesI am stubborn, determined, and sensitive.
My Self-Summary
I've learnt something valuable today. I always believe that
'Practice makes perfect.' But today I've realised 'Practice makes it permanent.'
What I’m doing with my life
It took me quite a while to ponder the 1st question.
As for the 2nd question....
I've realised today that I am emotional illiterate. I have difficulties expressing my feelings becoz I was not taught to do that. I was afraid to express my feelings becoz I was said to be rude wen I do that. And as a matter of fact, I am afraid to be called rude. Right now, I know that I shouldn't be afraid to express my emotions. Owning that emotion is my rights. What I do with the emotions is important.... as long as I do not hurt myself and others. I have a lot of students who have emotional baggage as they too r emotionally illiterate. With these resolutions, I hope to help at least 1 kid to be emotionally literate.
Failing to express my emotions means that I am a stamp collector. What is a stamp collector? In Singapore, there is a few supermarket who will give a stamp to customers who have spent a certain amt of money. Then, the stamps collected are exchanged for a kitchen knife or CorningWare sets depending the no. of stamps collected.
So this stamp collector concept is applied to feelings of a person whereby a person collects many stamps (which the stamps consists of feelings of anger, sad, disappointment, mad) in exchange for a bigger explosion. A stamp collector (in the long run) will equal to getting a depression. Therefore from now on, my resolution will not be a stamp collector.