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ismira

32 / F / straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

The Skinny

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Ethnicity
Asian
Height
4' 11" (1.50m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Islam and very serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Job
Education / Academia
Income
Kids
Pets
Dislikes dogs
Languages
English (Okay), Malay (Okay)

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I am stubborn, determined, and sensitive.

My Self-Summary

I love to learn. I am not a perfectionist unless after doing a certain things for quite a number of times, then do I try to achieve perfections. I dislike dishonest and insincere person.

I've learnt something valuable today. I always believe that
'Practice makes perfect.' But today I've realised 'Practice makes it permanent.'

What I’m doing with my life

I am pondering 'Who am I?' and 'How am I feeling, right now?'

It took me quite a while to ponder the 1st question.

As for the 2nd question....
I've realised today that I am emotional illiterate. I have difficulties expressing my feelings becoz I was not taught to do that. I was afraid to express my feelings becoz I was said to be rude wen I do that. And as a matter of fact, I am afraid to be called rude. Right now, I know that I shouldn't be afraid to express my emotions. Owning that emotion is my rights. What I do with the emotions is important.... as long as I do not hurt myself and others. I have a lot of students who have emotional baggage as they too r emotionally illiterate. With these resolutions, I hope to help at least 1 kid to be emotionally literate.

Failing to express my emotions means that I am a stamp collector. What is a stamp collector? In Singapore, there is a few supermarket who will give a stamp to customers who have spent a certain amt of money. Then, the stamps collected are exchanged for a kitchen knife or CorningWare sets depending the no. of stamps collected.
So this stamp collector concept is applied to feelings of a person whereby a person collects many stamps (which the stamps consists of feelings of anger, sad, disappointment, mad) in exchange for a bigger explosion. A stamp collector (in the long run) will equal to getting a depression. Therefore from now on, my resolution will not be a stamp collector.

I’m really good at

thinking the abstracts and becomes the mediator

The first things people usually notice about me

my smile

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I love to watch action pack movies; esp if the shows potrays the aesthetic part of martial arts. Cool. As for food, i love chocolates and ice-cream or something hot and spicy like cili padi. I love inspirational books eg. chicken soup.

The six things I could never do without

my faith, my family, my teachers, my friends, knowledable and humble ppl and love

I spend a lot of time thinking about

life. What have I done to make this planet a beautiful, peaceful place to stay in. Whether i had wasted my time on unnecessary things....

On a typical Friday night I am

reading or sleeping early or accompanying my mum at home

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I will cry if someone bid goodbye or ask for forgiveness.

You should message me if

u r an honest and sincere person.