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39 Somerville, MA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30-42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 1" (1.55m)
Body Type
Average build
Special Diet
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
For a long time, people described me as "nice." Now, they are just as likely to say I am a fighter. I am the same as before but now more of the way I am is apparent to others, I think. In the past this fighting was more of a traditional sort of activism. Lately, the fight is to find, within the structure of medicine, a way to pull up next to someone as quickly as possible and figure out what needs to be done.

I am often happy in the following situations: singing in synagogue with all the voices rising together, running so early it is still nighttime and the stars are shining above me, in the subway station while the trains are rushing in, then out.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Learning about bodies. Learning myself. Being outside. Writing other worlds and spending time inside them. Starting a new adventure in a new place.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking a meal quickly, cheaply
Eliciting the whole story
Chatting with strangers
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm looking at them, or listening.
I'm wearing my hair in funny little buns.
I'm not sure if they notice (I didn't notice for years) but I'm pretty short.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Haruki Murakami, Toni Morrison, Junot Diaz (although I get frustrated sometimes), W.S. Merwin, Jorie Graham, Lydia Davis, Amy Hempel, Dorothy Allison (the old stuff), Audre Lorde, Louise Erdrich

Beasts of the Southern Wild, Prodigal Sons, Southern Comfort, Sin Nombre (I should see more movies!)

Music I can feel in my chest

Food that is eaten with hands, especially sushi

I don't own a TV
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Running shoes and a place to run
Something to write with and on
Strangers to talk to
Music with a strong beat
A crowd to get lost in
My people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is and isn't
What justice looks like and how to work toward it
What people are thinking--what their motivations are
Here I am in this moment
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Not sure -- everything is about to change.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I want adventures, joyful, unpredictable adventures, and also I want a partner. I don't feel I have control over the order of events, and am grateful for what shows up.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like walking and walking with no particular place in mind.
You can point me toward some awesome music.
You want to dress up goofy and go somewhere or nowhere in particular.
You want to make cards for our friends or draw for no reason at all.
You want to DANCE.