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63 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 36-66
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 5:44pm
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Average build
Christianity but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Hi! Thanks for browsing me. I'm a fun-loving and hopelessly romantic widower, once again in search of a soul mate. I'm looking for someone special who loves spontaneity and fun. I enjoy movies, dining and Hawaiian vacation adventures. I'm also a big fan of AV and computer technologies, diving and home renovation. I'd love to find a new best friend to emotionally invest in.

I'm looking for a playful but sincere, trim, feminine, loving woman to build a life with. I'm hopeful that lightning will strike again and I'll find yet another world's most wonderful woman to rediscover the thrill of living each day to its fullest while building a lasting bond of friendship, romance and love.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm trying to give my kids a good start at life, find a more rewarding sysadmin job and make some quality time and space for the romance missing from my life.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Call me Mr. Fixit. I repair and upgrade Tivos, cars, appliances,
you name it. I love computers when they're behaving and when
they aren't, I'm a fair hand at exorcizing their demons.
The first things people usually notice about me
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is my piercing pale blue eyes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a huge AV/movie enthusiast. My DVD collection is in the thousands of titles. I'm also a big fan of the more off the wall scifi/fantasy writers like Varley and Gaiman. I've also recently discovered Patricia Briggs who does a very decent job with the kick-ass very off the wall heroine.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Love, my kids, the beach, exploring, Video and a challenge.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Keeping my kids healthy and happy, keeping up/ahead of technology and finances.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Off to the sushi bar or tepanyaki place followed by a good DVD with the munchkins.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a huge romantic.
You should message me if
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Feel like getting together for some fun and adventure.