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33 M Seattle, WA

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5′ 7″ (1.71m)
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Strictly anything
When drinking
Graduated from space camp
More than $1,000,000
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Relationship Type
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
real nice, self assured guy, outgoing guy. Very laid back, but develop a powerful sense of urgency when I get excited about something.

There sure are alot of pictures of ladies holding telephones...

I enjoy my job, yet I have my moments where I feel like it takes a little more life energy than it should.

I have many true friends and great relationships with those friends, but alas I am the "single guy", which has its advantages, but it might be nice to have some company...

okay OKcupid, do your thing.

Hey wait-can anyone tell me why women seem to generally be more offended by flag burning than book burning?
What I’m doing with my life
Restaurant manager by trade and an artist and musician in the off hours. I have to actively work to maintain a positive work to excercise to life balance(there is so much to be interested in!) Novice surfer who tries to go every chance he gets, I try and get out of bed every morning and try to make something fun happen. Sometimes that something fun is simply cleaning the house, but I love doing chores...I think happiness is a state of mind that requires effort and is not simply fortunate coincidence :)
I’m really good at
Dinner, whether it be out or at home. Solving problems (I have superhuman levels of patience), skiing, helping a friend learn how to play the guitar, eating pizza, getting up early, planning fun things to do...I am good at many things, and so are you. I am sure of it :)
The first things people usually notice about me
polling the friends:
wit,enthusiasm, a positive disposition, and that I pause a lot when I am talking (I find that I would rather form the right words than spend a disproportionate amount of time explaining the wrong ones).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
soul music and hip hop, Paul Simon(my karaoke default),Bill Withers, Curtis Mayfield may be my favorite songwriter, rock star composer of all time...MOTOWN all day, every day.

I like to read biographies. Oppenheimer(more sensitive than you would think), Miki Dora(the anti hero of surfing, and his own worst enemy), Bernard Montessier (famous french sailor/circumnavigator), Donald Crowhearst (ambiton and epic failure ).

Documentaries on film and the escapism of comic book themes are things that I like.

die hard IS a christmas movie.

I have read and watched game of thrones...Some of the only fiction I have read in a long time.

"The Road" by Cormac MaCcarthy was a "glass half full" story in my opinion.

Vaandana Shiva is a hero of mine.

I could go the rest of my life without hearing a song from the band Sublime...

********I will eat anything*****

I will try anything 2 or three times.

kalamata olives-- I wish that I liked them, but I don't...I think.
The six things I could never do without
an instrument
pen and paper
exercise (I need it to cope with my addiction to pizza)
soul music

...and air , water, sweet whoopie, etc....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Shit I read in the news, future plans, why floor drains in restaurants always seem to not quite be at the lowest point in the floor. How to maximize my time more efficiently to that everything on my chore list gets done while still feeling like I am able to take my sweet time. The rules of Time travel, --I have a big imagination and I think about many things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working hard for my money!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I drive a minivan and I am proud of it?...

I am a very open person, If I want something, I ask for it politely.
I do not have a closet full of skeletons(or any bones for that matter), and I do not have any strange proclivities or fetishes that I am waiting to spring on someone. I tend to be very open right away with people that I am interested in spending time with.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You could do worse? I am not a douche? You have an interest in surfing?

and another thing...first dates suck. they are chunky and awkward, and I am old enough, seasoned enough, and wise enough to know that we both are uncomfortable :)

Be cool, be yourself. Like yourself!