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itisme0903

32 / M / Gay / Single

Salt Lake City, Utah

His Details

Last Online
Sep 5, 2012
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish

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My self-summary
Basically looking for an LTR. No hookups or anything like that. Just someone that loves me, loves to laugh, loves good conversation, loves the arts, and loves to love. I am working downtown SLC right now and I live in West Valley with 2 roomates that are awesome. I LOVE being outside, I like staying home and relaxing, I like nights out on the town, I like pretty much everything and I am willing to try most anything once. I LOVE laughin... anything that is funny is a plus. I try to be optimisitc about most things. I LOVE amusement parks. Rollercoasters etc are one of my favorite things. I LOVE Disneyland. I am a crier. Not a whiner, but movies, and nostalgia and sentimental things make me cry. A good movie, play, piece of art, book, song, dance, picture, etc....they can bring emotions out of me super fast and i am very sensitive to art. My body literally repels things it doesn't like artistically, and cries over things it loves. Just who I am. :)

I am artistic, loving, and funny
What I’m doing with my life
I am an actor. Always searching for my next role. Hoping to move to NYC soon and continue the search. In the mean time I am working in downtown SLC as a receptionist, and doing theatre here locally. Other than that I try to do things that make life fun. I try to push my boundaries when it comes to adventure...I have fears and I try to do things to overcome them. But I also like safety, and so it really just depends on the day. But I am always willing to try things at least once. Haven't quite gotten up the courage to bunjee jump or parachute yet though...but someday! lol
I’m really good at
Singing, laughing, eating, sleeping, acting, entertaining, having fun, drinking wine etc etc...

I am good at listening. I feel like that is one of my purposes in life...to be a listener to friends who have hard times. My biggest problem is finding someone to be a listener to me...when I am having the bad day...*sigh.
The first things people usually notice about me
Sense of humor, my clothes, my approachableness...if that is even a word...lol. Physically, I would say my eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: "His Dark Materials"(the golden compass trilogy), Lovely Bones, The perks of being a wallflower, Harry Potter, Anything Jane AUsten, And so much more...

Movies: Wow. too many to name. Milk, The Hours, Love Actually, Far From Heaven, Big Business, Clue, Dead Poets Society, Anything with Audrey Hepburn, I love cuddling up to chick flicks OR horror movies. I also LOVE TV on DVD. Six feet under, LOST, Dexter, Sex and The CIty, Friends, Will and Grace, etc etc...I also LOVE America's Next Top Model, So You Think you can dance, project runway, and Ru Pauls drag race.

Music: Most musical theatre/broadway, but i also love Gaga, Imogen Heap, Damien Rice, Sigur Ros, Pink, Beyonce, blah blah blah...all types of music...really there isn't much i Don't like.
The six things I could never do without
friends...cause lets be honest...they are my heroes.
food...cause lets be honest...food is GOOD
music...cause lets be honest...life is boring without it.
theatre...cause lets be honest...its what i do.
art...cause lets be honest...its what i make.
outdoors...cause lets be honest...it is GORGEOUS!!!!!!!!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
music, art, love, friendships, wine, food, sleep, life, and how to get out of my most recent debacles.

I like to day dream too. I love making up elaborate stories or wondering what I would do with a billion dollars etc...

other than that, i think a lot about who i will be, what i will be and who i will be with.
On a typical Friday night I am
either at club jam, or hanging out with friends, eating, seeing movies, chatting or whatev. Occasionally though i like a solitary night on my own. I like to take the city out on a date. But if there is something else to try, i would love to try it. I am here on this site to meet new people, so if you have things you love to do, don't hesitate to let me know about them. i would LOVE to try new things. new foods, new activities, new movies, new books, new magazines, new musuems, new sports, new dances, new stores, new buildings, new beliefs...i am fascinated by it all. and if i love it i love it. if i don't then at least i tried it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
hmm...my life is an open book...ask and I will tell.

but if i had to say it, i would admit that i have a fairly low self esteem/image sometimes. I tend to make the mistake of not realizing how amazing I am. which is a common mistake, but one that is hard to bounce back from.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 21–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are single, love life, food, wine and the fine arts, and don't like any drama OFF of the stage or screen. :)

really though I want someone simple, no drama, someone that likes to laugh and cry at the same things, and has similar goals. Someone i can come home to and detox with. someone to love. someone that loves me. just simple conventional love with the occasional wild side...that to me would be the perfect combo.

Other than that, message me if you are looking for new friends! I am always up for chatting and getting to know someone. I LOVE meeting new people of all backgrounds and beliefs. Unique people that love life.