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  • Ages 24-36
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Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
English, Spanish
My self-summary
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Named after Samuel Beckett.

I'm a cinematographer - mostly documentary work, some narrative and a little commercial. I used to work for a production company but now I'm out on my own; the leap was a little scary, but now that I've made it, I'll never go back. It's given me the time and freedom to start thinking about doing some of my own work, about which I'm very excited (death to the hanging preposition).

When I'm not making movies, my other passions are:

I ride motorcycles, mostly old ones (newest bike I've ever owned was a '95). Please don't say "I hope you wear a helmet". Just read this:

I build furniture. It's tough to find shop space in the city, but I manage to finish a few pieces a year, which keeps me sane.

Trying to live as critically and deliberately as I can. I don't mean I'm a tight-ass, I just try not to take anything for granted or make stupid assumptions based on social norms. I try to stay in motion, preferably but not always the forward variety.

I also love cooking - most recently I've been dipping my toe into Indian and Ayurvedic traditions. I'm really excited by the notion of food as medicine.
What I’m doing with my life
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Reading Karl Ove.

Making film; living the freelance, feast-or-famine dream, which suits me.

I also work part-time building furniture and doing light carpentry. It helps bring in a few bucks, but mostly it's for fun, designing and building hardwood furniture, cabinetry, lamps, etc.

Riding motorcycles or bicycles, training for my first marathon, meeting new people, breaking bad habits, moving on.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Adobe Premiere (ha, I used to put Final Cut Pro in this category; now that shit's for the birds).

Listening. Reading all day. Getting my ya-yas out with a good run or a MTB ride.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
blue eyes

I don't have it in me to bullshit - it's simply not worth the effort!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: My Struggle, Portrait of the Artist as a Young Man, Language Older than Words, Angle of Repose, Redwall. George Saunders, Matt Taibbi, Snowbum (whoa, if you know about Snowbum, please message me and at least just say hi!). Matthew Crawford, Kafka, Kundera, DFW.

Movies: McCabe and Mrs Miller, Grizzly Man, Irreversible (favorite?), The Lives of Others. Memento. Beasts of No Nation.

Musics: Rodrigo Amarante. Tom Waits, Dirty Three, Mahler. The Raveonettes. THE NATIONAL. Sufjan Stevens, Richard Reed Parry, Beirut, Phosphorescent, Tweedy, Sharon Van Etten.

Shows: The Wire, Deadwood, Breaking Bad.

Food: Fish Tacos, Bolognese, Laap. Poblanos. Dal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could do without this question.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- motorcycles (as in: where can i ride it next)
- bicycles (mostly just when will i get to mtb ride next)
- tattoos (as in: what will the next one be)
- semantics (as in: why people say things like 'atm machine' and 'a whole nother')
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
cooking, or eating, or at a show, or out for a run, or watching a movie, or shooting a movie, or working in the shop, or editing, or sleeping, or doing any other typical Friday night activity ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Lately I've been making forays into the world of polyamory, but I know that it probably won't be my scene forever.
You should message me if
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You're bold, you're smart, you're irreverent, you're not scared of motorcycles, you're turned on by motorcycles, you're okay with people who work with their hands.