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47 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Jan 25
Black, Native American, White
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Christianity and it’s important
Working on Two-year college
Might want kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I never publicly admit to being romantic, but I guess all artists are. We see life as a great work, a work we are so fortunate as to be a part of. I feel passionately about my world, my work, and my life. I would like to feel that same enthusiasm about the man I choose to love. It's too easy to only look for safety, but I want that too... to trust, not only to love. I want my lover to be my friend, and someone I can rely upon. I do not want us to compete with eachother.

I like guys around my age. I like guys who are younger than I am. I like guys who make me laugh.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm an author. I write dark speculative fiction. I'm a cartoonist. I used to work in tech and graphic design, but now I mostly void that. I got to school and work as a care worker and have some moderate success as an author - not enough to quit my day job. However, I know and am known by some prominent authors, I tour, I do bookreadings, I have some level of success. Some people think I'm funny.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm very computer literate, and I write poetry, lyrics, prose and grants well. I also draw, paint (acrylics. watercolors, and love open mike. You could say I'm a creative type. I'm also an ACMT, CompTIA A+ and Network+ certified computer technician.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I am smart and funny. I also am curvy, which means that although I'm chubby, I'm gifted with a shapely and impressively voluminous quantity of T&A.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I really like Gothic and alternative rock, but I also like more rap and hip-hop than you might imagine. I enjoy reading science-fiction, I read a lot, I usually don't watch movies til they are out on DVD or cable, a lot of times I find out I already read the book. I like drama, horror, fantasy] and sci-fi.

I like Thai food.


Ermm... books.. right now all I have in my house are Chronicles of Narnia, a full collection of Toni Morrison and a bunch of Anne Rice novels.

Movies I loved from before: The Matrix, Felix the Cat, Clockwork Orange, Princess Bride, Momento, the first Scary Movie (but the sequels failed), Queen of the Damned (RIP Aaliyah), the remake of Texas Chainsaw Massacre rocked, Spawn of Chucky was hilarious.

Musical artists I really like? The Cure, Ludacris, 3 Doors Down, Depeche Mode, X, Public Image Limited, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, Alicia Keys, Lydia Lunch, Creatures, Sioxsie and the Banshees, Love & Rockets (FYI I also really like the graphic novels of the same name), Mary J. Blige.

Okay.. I do like graphic novels, I read grotesque amounts of ElfQuest and still have some of them around here, and as I mentioned Love & Rockets, and various and sundry X-Men related titles (I liked the Amalgam series.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) Music 2) Family 3) Books 4) God 5) Internet 6) Conversation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Scripts, screenplays, video editing, grants, organizing events, having a more fulfilling and enriching social life, how to do my hair every morning, glasses versus contact lenses, the deep inner meaning of song lyrics... and other stuff.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At karaoke singing and goofing with my friends and fam.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have endometriosis. And body piercings.
You should message me if
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You're a decent human being.