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40 M Takoma Park, MD

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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don't you love to hate this site? as a native local i know DC is uptight but c'mon now people. so after you weed through all of those other messages let's meet up!
also, i would say i'm more creative than the average bear but i can't get behind the concept that my first message MUST be interesting and special. you know who you are.

lastly, hint for those of you struggling with writing a profile or with creativity in general: "The most private thing I’m willing to admit" section can be anything you want; too many of you take this shit literally!
i'm real and looking for the real thing. if i'm interested in you i will not hesitate to ask you out because let's get this party

i build stuff for a living (own a remodeling/construction company)

if you don't like dogs stop reading now. no comprendo that one...

i like the sound of tires on gravel roads

i like the feeling of passing an expanse of trees after a treeless stretch with the windows down when the cool forest breath washes over me

i cook (did it for a living at some places you may have been to)
i may be opening a food truck in the near future.

born and bred here in DC, but i am very much not a typical washingtonian professional. never held a desk job.

big fan of Euro soccer leagues, quality over quantity, Amazon Prime, and wood smoke---in my food, in the air, wherever, whenever ;>)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
i have traversed northern Spain, where i walked from the French border to the Atlantic coast, on the Camino (Frances) de Santiago. i hope to do part of The Way in France as well, you know french food and all...

i like the backcountry and i like to backpack. way back in the 90s i walked half the AT with my pup and did 4 months in the Rockies with NOLS. so yeah, i like the freedom of putting my life in a bag on my back and takin off.

study Aikido
improve my drumming/ play in a band again
learn to beekeep/produce honey
grow food again (had gardens at my last two homes)
play tennis
learn the bass guitar so i can express my melodic ideas
learn to surf
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being charming, funny, obstinate, thorough, opinionated, helpful, interested, passionate, intense, affectionate

and making fires (in a good way, not a pyro way)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
perhaps my sardonic, irreverent wit.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Hesse, Tolkien, Tom Robbins (jitterbug is my #1), C. S. Lewis, Bryson, Wilde, Thoreau, Steinbeck, Whitman, Moore

big lebowski (goodman's best work), midnight run (grodin is amazing), trollhunter, volver, the professional, la femme nakita (original), the vanishing(original), Spinal Tap, the producers, lord of the rings, star wars (4,5,6), bram stoker's dracula (Oldman is genius) ...i love movies...

comedy: Curb Your Enthusiasm. Period. ok, Louie is great too... princess bride: the Miracle Max scene, pure genius.

the dead (the boys were/ are Perfect in their Imperfection), THE band, the stones, dylan, ABB, Tedeschi Trucks, Yonder Mtn, the Clash, Warren Haynes, Little Feat, U2 (80s), Grisman 4,5, and 6, jerry band, P. Simon, R. Palmer's seventies funk and R&B, Van the Man, Marley, Babatunde, Zeppelin, Fela, N. Young. vampire wknd, Jenny Lewis, Wilco, CCDrops, Elvis Perkins, Alabama Shakes, Clem Snide, Bluegrass, E.S. and the Magnetic Zeros, Newgrass, the waterboys, Brazillian based percussion, and any other rhythm based music

traditional mexican, carribean, all Mediterranean is undeniable as is most traditional Asian cuisine from the tropics through Korea.

some favorite flavor combos:

seared and salty hangar with pure dijon (eating that now as i type)--- deeply aromatic toasted sesame oil with minced ginger, garlic, scallions (wha?! shut f-in front door!)--- ripe avocado, cilantro, white onion, lime (oh mama!), truly great properly smoked Butt on potato bun with piquant apple cider and creamy chopped slaw--- my head just exploded.

alcohol, yes please: scotch (medium peat) over bourbon, vodka (martini w/ 3) over gin, tequila (sipping reposado) over rum. red (pinot, aglianico) over white though i love good vino verde, moscatos and steely SBs. grappa, pear brandy and digestivos you ask? bring 'em on.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good food
my senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-why bald men are charged full price at the barber
-why some matches on okc add up to more than 100%; if i recall statistics properly...
-i don't like stinky fridges (blech %*^#$^&)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
i couldn't have said it better...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
i like-a the a sissy-girl

if you're unfamiliar, please enjoy (and ignore Ads of course):

also, i'm as kinky as a cheap garden hose
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
if you desire to build your life with and around a special someone.

you actually have time to date and can set up a real date within a week of chatting. i've done this enough to know when someone is full of it. this town is full of hyper-focused overachievers. those people are not my type.

you don't smoke, you do enjoy good food and drink, love dogs (you don't support breeders), and have a creative outlet. you appreciate being timely. you are not flaky.

it's really important to me that my partner and I laugh together regularly and have fun. seems obvious and yet...

also, i tend to like women who are smart-assy and edgy in a sexy way, but brush the surface and they're sweet and caring.

I'm GGG, sex-positive and you are too.

brunettes w/ bangs
Brunette tauruses with bangs and bangin curves
Ink sleeves
Brunette tauruses with bangs and bangin curves and ink sleeves who cook (perhaps for a living, dr evil puts pinky to pouty lip)
outdoorsy types fuck it you get the point.

i'm happy to hold the brunette and sub ginger above, SOS (for you industry folk)

no, but for real, that chick ⤴️ who backpacks and plays fiddle, i definitely want to take you out.