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39 M Takoma Park, MD

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:13pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Might want kids
Has dogs
English, Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
it's bizness time...

if i'm interested in you i will ask you out straight-up; boom, booyah, and-a hizzah (in the parlance of our times).

i love the sound of tires on gravel roads

i build stuff

i cook (did it for a living at some places you may have been to)

I have many layers
i come on strong
my natural sweetness will reveal itself with patient coaxing and care

So yes, i'm an onion.

a local onion in fact, so i guess i'm eco-friendly and i appreciate poetic references to carmelization...

born and bred here in DC, but i am very much not a typical washingtonian professional. never held a desk job.

big fan of Euro soccer leagues, quality over quantity, Amazon Prime, and wood smoke---in my food, in the air, wherever, whenever ;>)

if you don't like my profile you are boring. i'm prone to hyperbole...
What I’m doing with my life
i have a job makin bits for pieces, we make wrinkles and advertise 'em as creases.

i have traversed northern Spain, where i walked from the French border to the Atlantic coast, on the Camino (Frances) de Santiago. i hope to do part of The Way in France as well, you know french food and all...

way back in the 90s i walked half the AT with my pup and did 4 months in the backcountry with NOLS. so yeah, i like the freedom of putting my life in a bag on my back and takin off.

study Aikido
improve my drumming/ play in a band again
learn to beekeep/produce honey
grow food again (had gardens at my last two homes)
play tennis
learn the bass guitar so i can express my melodic ideas
learn to surf
I’m really good at
being charming, funny, obstinate, thorough, opinionated, helpful, interested, passionate, intense, affectionate

and making fires
The first things people usually notice about me
i can't say first, but my behind has been commented on enough for me to take notice. and my dimples perhaps.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Hesse, Tolkien, Tom Robbins (jitterbug is my #1), C. S. Lewis, Bryson, Wilde, Thoreau, Steinbeck, Whitman, Moore

big lebowski (goodman's best work), midnight run (grodin is amazing), trollhunter, volver, the professional, la femme nakita (original), the vanishing(original), Spinal Tap, the producers, lord of the rings, star wars (4,5,6), bram stoker's dracula (Oldman is genius) ...i love movies...

breaking bad, homeland, walking dead, game of thrones, no reservations and the layover (Bourdain baby), triple D: yes Guy is ridiculous but he discovers some real gems

comedy: Curb Your Enthusiasm. Period. ok, Louie is great too... princess bride: the Miracle Max scene, pure genius.

the dead, THE band, the stones, dylan, ABB, Derek Trucks, Yonder Mtn, the Clash, Warren Haynes, Little Feat, U2 (80s), Grisman 4,5, and 6, jerry band, P. Simon, R. Palmer's seventies funk and R&B, Van the Man, Marley, Babatunde, Zeppelin, Fela, N. Young. vampire wknd, Jenny Lewis, Wilco, CCDrops, Elvis Perkins, Alabama Shakes, Clem Snide, Bluegrass, E.S. and the Magnetic Zeros, Newgrass, the waterboys, Brazillian based percussion, and any other rhythm based music

traditional mexican, carribean, all Mediterranean is undeniable as is most traditional Asian cuisine from the tropics through Korea.

alcohol, yes please: scotch (medium peat) over bourbon, vodka (martini w/ 3) over gin, tequila (sipping reposado) over rum. red (pinot, aglianico) over white though i love good vino verde, moscatos and steely SBs. grappa, pear brandy and digestivos you ask? bring 'em on.
The six things I could never do without
good food
my senses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
why bald men are charged full price at the barber and solopsism
On a typical Friday night I am
i couldn't have said it better...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i like-a the a sissy-girl
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
you're a taurus, don't smoke, enjoy good food and drink, love dogs (you don't support breeders), and have a creative outlet. you appreciate being timely. you are not flaky.

it's really important to me that my partner and I laugh together regularly and have fun. seems obvious and yet...

also, i like women who are smart-assy and edgy in a sexy way, but brush the surface and they're sweet and caring.

brunettes w/ bangs
if you like to wear chokers and danglies (oh my, bites fist)
Ink sleeves
outdoorsy types

especially if you have a pic of you in front of Machu Picchu, so rare and original