I value a sincere, open, joyful and peaceful mind.
Dancing: salsa, samba, mbalax, zouk.
Seeing things from outside the box
Giving and receiving deep, sincere yet down-to-earth tender loving care
High-level of energy
Comics by Jodorowski, Bilal, Druillet, Leo, Manara, Mosdi, Dufaux, Bec, Marazano etc.
Movies by Woody Allen, Almodovar, David Lynch, Spike Jonze, Spike Lee, Jarmusch, Solondz, Lars Von Trier, Zulawski, FF Coppola, Scorcese, Kubrick, Ridley Scott
Music: Mbalax (Youssou Ndour etc.) and African music in general, Samba and Brazilian music in general, Zouk, Salsa, Classic Rock (Led Zep, Springsteen, Santana etc.)
Food: Indian, Thai, Mexican and Ethiopian for pleasure, healthfood the rest of the time
A comfortable mattress in a silent room
Tasty but healthy food
A BIG city with nice streets and good public transportation (anything smaller than Barcelona is too small for me)
Dancing (and thus obviously nice music)
What secondary benefit pushes so many Parisians into tobacco addiction and all its fully documented abominable consequences?
You go on a first date like I do, i.e., without any specific predefined expectation, just waiting to know the other person to start figuring out what (s)he may turn out to be in your life (a quickly forgotten mismatch? a friend? a memorable fling? or your next deep lasting love?), while hoping to be seduced by a good surprise.
You don't smoke.