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42 M Paris, France

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 3:50am
Hispanic / Latin, White
6′ 0″ (1.84m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Dislikes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Portuguese (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Native Parisian thrilled to finally call Paris his home, after spending most his adult life in New York, where the grass was greener but made of plastic, and then Recife, Brazil, where it was genuinely vegetal and greener yet, but plagued with stealth stinging bugs :).

I value a sincere, open, joyful and peaceful mind.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Computer science: software engineering, artificial intelligence, games.

Dancing: salsa, samba, mbalax, zouk.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making creative sarcastic jokes

Giving and receiving deep, sincere yet down-to-earth love

Nurturingly guiding a somewhat repressed woman through the path of liberation

Gratefully enjoying the company of an already liberated woman for all she has to offer
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sense of humor
High-level of energy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books by Ayn Rand, Wilhelm Reich, Alexander Lowen, Osho, Houellebecq, BM Koltes, Charles Stross, Octavia Butler & Sci-fi in general

Comics by Jodorowski, Bilal, Druillet, Leo, Manara, Mosdi, Dufaux, Bec, Marazano etc.

Movies by Woody Allen, Almodovar, David Lynch, Spike Jonze, Spike Lee, Jarmusch, Solondz, Lars Von Trier, Zulawski, FF Coppola, Scorcese, Kubrick, Ridley Scott

Music: Mbalax (Youssou Ndour etc.) and African music in general, Samba and Brazilian music in general, Zouk, Salsa, Classic Rock (Led Zep, Springsteen, Santana etc.)

Food: Indian, Thai, Mexican and Ethiopian for pleasure, healthfood the rest of the time
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.


A comfortable mattress in a silent room with heating and air-conditioning

Tasty but healthy food

A BIG city with nice streets and good public transportation (anything smaller than Barcelona is too small for me)

Dancing (and thus obviously nice music)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What is the key to get what you want beyond faith and perseverance?

How did the three following memes managed to spread so widely and durably among Parisian women:
1) Tabagisme: smoking is sexy and cool (or so they seem to think)
2) Dating perfectionism, i.e., it's better to be alone than to give myself a genuine chance to get to really know any guy who at first sight seems to deviate the slightest from my overspecified ideal of the uber-perfect partner
3) Ageism, i.e., any guy more than 5 year older than me will be incapable of making me happy, independently of any quality he might possess
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing or resting at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Recently happily remarried and yet still openly available for someone new at whatever level of intimacy she would be willing to develop with me (i.e., potentially/theoretically polyamorous)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live near Paris or you are coming to Paris regularly for you job, or you are coming to Paris on your next vacation.

You go on a first date like I do, i.e., without any specific predefined expectation, just waiting to know the other person to start figuring out what (s)he may turn out to be in your life (a quickly forgotten mismatch? a friend? a memorable fling? or your next deep lasting love?), while hoping to be seduced by a good surprise.

You don't smoke.