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iwakuralain0

26 M Greenwood, MS

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Sep 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Often
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Bulgarian (Poorly), Japanese (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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www.facebook.com/youretoofullofshit
http://kokujinkun.tumblr.com/
https://twitter.com/KokujinKun
www.reverbnation.com/schapezilladiddies/songs
https://www.youtube.com/user/iwakuralain01

I know women nowadays mostly need a "provider", but I'm not in a place to provide material security. Anything else though: I got you. <3 All this talk about feminism is proof that women can go after a man if they want a MAN, but if all they want is financial bullshit, then GOODBYE! I'm way more valuable than stupid dollar signs.

Honestly, I want to share sad stories, look up at the night sky, and cry together. I'm hoping to find someone who doesn't want to act on the need to lie about themselves, their needs, and their desires. I don't want to lie about those things anymore.

For a long time, I felt like I was stuck in a cloudy haze. I finally have a hopeful memory that has pulled me out that darkness and allows me to smile at the possibility of a bright future. Moments of honesty, truth, and wholeheartedness are what I'm all about. I may be naive about some things, but love is like that. Love is a fool, but not me. Not anymore.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm healing my mind and emotional body. Reintegrating myself with family after I stayed away from them out of what I thought was necessity. I never wanted to be a burden on anyone, but who of us have never been a burden? I'm teaching myself music, exercising my body through pseudo-yoga and martial arts, and looking for work patiently. Right now, I'm taking my time healing after the loss of my mother and all my material wealth. It's time for me to rebuild myself from the ground up. It'd be nice to have a patient woman who understood that and didn't expect me to "get over it" in one night.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing is one of my few fortès. I've taught myself how to sing, play guitar and bass like an amateur, and I'm good at taking punishment. I mostly mean I can endure anything to accomplish a goal. I'm good at dropping everything and picking up something else. Understanding emotions and what purpose they serve is something I value a lot. I do it for myself and others, especially when they don't want me to. Astrology is important to me. Thinking about the planets relaxes me. I'd like someone who likes art as much as I do. We need creative release. I know I do. Without it, I feel so stuffy.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Black Boy by Richard Wright
Hagakure: Way of the Samurai
White Lies My Teacher Told Me by James Loewen
James Bawldin has always intrigued me through his talking. I've not read his work yet.
I like documentaries and anime a lot. I don't feel like listing all of those things I've watched.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Freewill
Oxygen
Emotions
Honesty
Variety
Laughter
Music
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Normally, I'm thinking about my past. I think about all the internalization I've had to do in order to cope, and I'm constantly examining my feelings so that I understand myself. Just today I was asking myself,"Why didn't I ever speak up as a child? Why was I always so quiet and never felt I deserved to speak?". I spend a lot of time on social media outlets just spouting my words. I always wish I just had one person who wanted to hear me talk. I'd like some help letting go of the past so I can do something in the present. It'd be nice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I've usually been out with friends, playing competitive video games. When I lived on my own in Salt Lake City I would go dance at clubs a lot. Sometimes, I'd go to open-mic places and sing songs by Autumn's Grey Solace. They're my favorite band. I really enjoy watching bands live, art shows, and anything about creative expression. I was never allowed, so I learned, to express myself creatively. It's such a struggle to remember that I can.
You should message me if
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Let me know if you just wanna sit and talk. No money involved. No requirements. Let's just talk. I'm not looking to rush into anything, although emotions can run high quickly when attraction is present.