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26 M Memphis, TN

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:45pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from high school
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Bulgarian (Poorly), Japanese (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
The last link is a song. Enjoy!

There's only one person on OKcupid I've ever wanted to talk to and get to know. She never responded to me so I gave up on her and maybe myself as well. Somehow, she's reappearing against my will into my life. That's one of those painful things people wanna logicize as "fate". I don't even know what to think anymore. My mind is blown. The potential for true and new love is, in itself, a rebirthing! The mystery of life guides me.
"Quality over quantity." That's my motto. Hopefully, I'm the best you can find on okcupid. I'm just looking for someone who wants to explore new realms of self-expression! I'm a really modest man and I'm attracted to sultry women. Transparency is important to me and I've always learned be to unnecessarily honest. Most of my music on ReverbNation is badly recorded so the volumes will catch you off guard. The only song on there I'm really proud of is "Galactasauresrex". "A Funky Monster Comes Out" isn't that bad either. I just don't feel that confident in my own creation. v.v I'm gonna make getting to know me easy! I'm a guitarist, bassist, singer, dancer, shy fucktard, philosopher, and autodidact. I'm the only child and I no longer have any parents in my life. Makes me feel a little like Batman. HAHAH! Anyway, I really love originality and creativity and I love people who can help me bring that out! I got a lot of courage and have had SOOOO many crazy experiences. I'd love to share some of them with you, if you're interested. I love dancing and I love inventing newer ways of expression. I'd love to show you this weird dance I made up, too! :3
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I'm coping. My mom's passed away and I've never known my father, and my stepfather I DID have died when I was 2 or 3, so I've been trying to figure out how to cope for a long time without even realizing it. But I'm getting really good at it, and it's taught me how to do a lot of things MOST people can't.

Spending a lot of time learning is what I use the internet for mostly. I didn't go to college immediately after high school, but it didn't stop me from getting smarter. Soon, however, I'll be using it for my creative expression! I really want to make music, funny YouTube videos, and deep intellectually provoking conversations. That's my thing.
I’m really good at
Getting to know you is fun! I hope I won't creep you out when I keep asking you questions. I really like getting to know people. It really is fun to me to ask questions. Empathizing and sympathizing is my fortè. Learning and adapting mentally is a strength of mine. Give me something I don't understand and I'll figure out how to get it. I'm a passionate lover. I've made a study out of everything I do, and pleasing a woman is what I love to do. I get pleasure from a woman's pleasure, so I like to talk to you and make sure I'm doin' things right. ;D Obviously, I'm good at writing. I probably have some errors here or there, but...I don't proofread. I speak pretty properly for a guy in the south 'cause I just like being sophisticated and authentic. Physical activity is a must for me when I'm not a depressed wreck. I like rock climbing, DDR, dancing, and swimming. I haven't been swimming in forever. If you have a pool, please invite me over. X_X
The first things people usually notice about me
I tend to be shy. That might lend to my mystery. I'm black. I'm tall (6'0.ft). I like to speak properly because I like to be properly understood. I'm an extremely self-aware person and I can explain why I do a lot of what I do in detail. No one ever asks about those things though, so I can't say they'll notice that first. I like dreamy music. My favorite band is Autumn's Grey Solace. I'm still not naming things you're gonna notice first. <_<;; ASK ME! Then you'll see. Sometimes, without trying I'll rhyme all the time. :X
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Book: White Lies My Teacher Told Me
Movies: Documentaries.
Shows: Anything.
Music: Hugely eclectic taste in music. Splashdown, Autumn's Grey Solace, Azam Ali, Aaliyah, etc. The list goes very far on.
Food: The not-processed kind.
The six things I could never do without
1. Oxygen
2. People
3. Music
4. Communication
5. Science
6. Creativity
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The planets stay on my mind. The cosmic balance they exhibit amazes me. I'm an active astrologer and I like explaining astrology to people who are interested! I always wonder how I would approach a woman and the countless ways she might reject me. Freerunning is something I wanna do sometimes. I wish I could model, sing, and make music with famous people. I really want to be on Bill Maher one day. I'd love to make music specifically with Janelle Monae and Victor Wooten. I want to create guitar styles, choreographies, art styles, and books on psychology and philosophy. I'd love to do brain tests with the worlds leading psychological innovators!
On a typical Friday night I am
Normally, I enjoy playing some video games and smoking bud. I'm super 420 friendly. I'd like to be able to go out to open-mics but not having a car makes that suck. I'm really doing the same thing on Fridays as I am on most days; just trying to love myself and find someone worth givin' a little love to.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I dunno how to use this properly. I'm willing to divulge some personal shit. I don't wanna scare anyone off with my honesty. Let's go with exposing the fact that I have self-doubt and doubt about myself and the world. It's one of my most propelling fears and it pushes me forward to try things I'm scared of.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–99
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
You wanna paint each other's bodies? You wanna get drunk and sing Autumn's Grey Solace songs with me? You wanna smoke bud and just talk? You wanna hook up with someone who won't objectify you and actually please you instead of selfishly using your body? You wanna watch me do my secret dance I'm too nervous to do in public? You just wanna have a conversation where the guy listens AND speaks well?