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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 3
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat), Latin (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Mostly I think we are all just trying to get by as best we can with what we have and taking some time to enjoy the ride. If we can help some others out on their journey as well, perfect.

Other concrete random facts
- I've got moves like Jagger
- I have an undergraduate degree in Classics
- I don’t rock climb, but I enjoy hiking and camping.
- I grew up in the Midwest.
- The moon holds a special place in my life
- I was an archaeologist for a decade
- I was in environmental conservation for half of a different decade
- I fell off a three story cliff during work and lived
- I am into photography, here are some pics
- My sense of humor is: dry, lewd, puns, "the world is so absurd i must make a joke to keep my sanity"
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now i work for the government doing Spatial data (GIS) and database work. I get to walk to work along Lake Merritt, which is nice.

I’m building a radio telescope using a kit I bought from NASA. Jupiter makes signals that sound like Ocean waves. A chance to listen to a cosmic ocean that at its closest is 365 million miles is a pretty amazing opportunity, I think.

I volunteer to do things like:
- Helping scientists visualize Orca whale feeding habits.
- Volunteer for SlutWalk when they were around
- Build the donation buckets for SF Pride
- Courage Campaign back when they were helping to overturn Prop 8
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Your mom jokes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Depending on how long they've been in California, they notice I'm not from around here fairly quickly. Also, I tend to be noticed in crowds or in individual interactions. UPS/Fed Ex people always remember me after 1 meeting, bar tenders, waitresses... obviously something about me sticks in people's minds (or craw if they don't like me).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
A small listing. Does anyone ever actually read these and be all "I must contact this person because they read blah blah"?

I like poetry: Anne Sexton, Leonard Cohen, Charles Bukowski, Catullus, Sappho, A E Stallings, others.

I also like short stories - Margret Atwood, Hank Chinaski, lightman, Hemingway (i know, i know), i am a big fan of the O Henry awards and anthologies of various authors around a theme.

Novels: Niel Gaiman, Margret Atwood (Again), Eco, Henry Miller, Douglas Adams, Richard Adams, King's "Dark Tower Series"

I also read scientific non fiction, usually physics- astronomy related. I also still read up on Archaeological finds and civilizations, my latest obsession is Mesopotamia.

i know this isn't a category, but i have a soft spot for Bettie page - love that 50's rock a billy vintage look.

music: Neko Case, Regina Spektor, Rob Zombie, Mary Chapin Carpenter, Fiona Apple, Everclear, Emmylou Harris, Monster Magnet, Liz Phair, Leonard Cohen, Jenny Lewis, The Cramps, Peggy Lee, Harry Chapin, Shawn Colvin, Izzy Stradlin, Rolling Stones, etc.

Movies/tv: Dark Crystal, Amelie, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Ground Hog's Day, LA Story, Mars needs women, Bridesmaids, Arrested Development, Harold & Maude,Steve Martin films, Casablanca, Wes Anderson films, What's eating Gilbert Grape, and I enjoy documentaries. I also admit i liked star trek next generation.

Food: yes.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I wonder what goes on in people's heads.
When i am gone i wonder if my cats are having a party with out me
It is estimated the solar system looped around our galaxy over 20 times in the past 4.3 billion years. That shit cray.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I read poetry in the bathtub.