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j31415lee

31 M Astoria, NY

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Banking / Finance
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Fluently), Japanese (Okay)

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have just decided to move to Taiwan on a whim to work on something I have always wanted. Bracing for the cultural shock to having been gone for 16 years.

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interesting math behind okcupid... long but fascinating nevertheless
http://ed.ted.com/lessons/inside-okcupid-the-math-of-online-dating-christian-rudder

and, are you a liberal or a conservative?
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/09/130910142339.htm

hmm, how to beat the odds
http://www.npr.org/blogs/codeswitch/2013/11/30/247530095/are-you-interested-dating-odds-favor-white-men-asian-women

too good to not share
http://www.buzzfeed.com/ellievhall/the-45-most-powerful-photos-of-2013
What I’m doing with my life
resource allocator by day
groovy beat creator by night

uncontrollable dancer
digitalized bookworm

American dream chaser
bucket list item collector and eraser
I’m really good at
making people think I'm rolling on something at raves

handyman stuff

reading topological maps
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: other people's textbooks
Movies: ones that nobody has ever heard of
Music: EDM, classical, and most of what Pandora feeds me
Food: all except spicy food
Shows: "Winter is coming," "So say we all," "Jay~~~~~~," "I love that woman. I love her more than sharks love blood"

Camping toilet paper: squirrels
Regret: last night
Travel medium to Mars: warp drive
Subject at school: psychohistory (please please message me if you know the reference)
Drink: don't remember

- more to come -
The six things I could never do without
the Economist
internet - except when I'm in the mountains
sushi and steaks
music that moves the heart or the body
suitcases & backpacks
intellectual banter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the world and why things are the way they are - work habit.

seamless, or no seamless
On a typical Friday night I am
yoga then sampling through new music and cutting them up

a non-typical but wishful one would be staring into a campfire under the milky way
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I came to the US by myself when I was 15, and as I myself signed all the permission forms, I got to watch all the R-rated movies in high school - fun.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–31
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
If you have never tried Asians, or have tried Asians but want more (well of course)

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for real, you

- want to stop dating
- intimidate guys
- are comfortable with yourself
- love intellectual banter
- match > 85%, enemy < 10%
- are down going to couples counseling regularly Mr. & Mrs. Smith style if we start a serious relationship (would be surprised if anybody is left)

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I think this is how it works - what you hear from everybody with a dog, "Fluffy is the best dog ever!" Relationships should work like that.

Fluffy was special but not that special, i.e. it was largely within a certain preferred parameter (size, temper, winter dog, whatnot), but it could have been the other puppy right next to it on the first day.

Then, you start sharing life together, making memories, building trust, giving each other ears and heart, and be each others' pillow through good and bad times. Fluffy became she/he who has all of your heart. The best dog ever, not a result of breed, but from everything intentional and unintentional after the first contact.

I am looking for you who can be my best human, and I yours.