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30 M Somerville, MA

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Last Online
Oct 18
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), Swedish (Poorly), C++ (Poorly), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Life can change quickly, can't it? Composer, trombonist, academic, and formerly a college professor, who is in the middle of a complete career change. Goodbye academia, hello software engineering world! On top of that I've just relocated to Boston.

I travel a lot, for fun and for my vocation. I've learned a couple programming languages, all specialized toward music. I've worked with L.L. Cool J, Dave Mason, and Gin Blossoms while working for a production company. I've lived in Brooklyn, NY, South Jersey, Kansas City, Indianapolis, and Stockholm, Sweden and traveled all over the US and Europe.

Love to cook, be active outside, and go to concerts. My blog has gone "viral" a couple times, my music gets played occasionally, and I tend to overwork then completely crash. Right now my life is Linux and Python.
What I’m doing with my life
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Learning Linux and Python, finishing my DMA dissertation, researching the politics, folk themes, and social statement in death metal. I'm also continuing research into the analysis of interactive multimedia, mainly still working out a full methodology for approaching musical analysis of the medium. I work as a freelance audio engineer, mainly doing mastering these days. And commissions, always commissions. and programming. So many Markov chains. Harness the probability!!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
learning, music, audio engineer, teaching, cooking, qualitative analysis, writing, sleeping.
The first things people usually notice about me
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smile, beard, hair, then laugh...usually because they make a comment about my smile/beard/hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: reading Midnight's Children by Salman Rushdie, Formalized Music by Iannis Xennakis, The Soundscape: Our Sonic Environment and the Tuning of the World by R. Murray Schafer, and recently finished Angels in America: Pt. 2: Perestroika by Tony Kushner. Hope I get to see that play live someday. Otherwise I read mostly fantasy novels or heavy handed research (last research article was by Ian Quinn).

Movies: Uh...haven't really watched many lately. America Psycho, any Studio Ghibli (Nausicaa may be my favourite), Tough Guys Don't Dance (either brilliant or horrid).

Shows: right now, anything by Rooster Teeth. also like Archer, Futurama, random anime, and Drunk History. I hardly watch TV though.

Music: I'm really into metal, contemporary classical, and, well, a whole bunch of other stuff. Currently, Alfred Schnittke, Guillaume de Machaut, Massive Attack, Portishead, John Hollenbeck (Large Ensemble and smaller groups), E.S.T. (sad, I finally get to Sweden, but it's too late to see Esbjorn Svensson), Entombed, Krux, Opeth, In Flames, the fan in my room, the sound of the subway, the sound of the train going over the tunnel in Sundbyberg.

Food: Yes. I'm not too picky and love trying new things
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
pencil, staff paper, pencil sharpener, bed roll (or something to sleep on), sheet(or something to pull over me), coffee (though it appears I'm trying...)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Linux, Python, Music, interactive multimedia, analysis, culture in America, philosophy, how I shouldn't think about such "heady" subjects all the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Used to be playing a gig, going to a friend's gig, or drinking. Now that I've changed careers...Well, I'll prolly still go to friends' gigs and drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm claustrophobic, so, yeah, don't tie me down. Literally...
You should message me if
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You like classical music, metal music, experimental art, beards are a turn on, you appreciate when I quote Shakespeare, and can correct me when I get the lines wrong, and you've got a sense of humor (and can appreciate a bad pun).