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36 M Lawrence, KS

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:48am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
I’m an old school nerd.

Gamer of all sorts, Table top RPGS(Dungeons & Dragons, etc), collectible card games (Magic the Gathering) board games and yes, videogames. I’m an avid reader, from classic American comics (X-men) Manga( Akira), Sci Fi and Fantasy. I attend Cons year round and have been helping organize Contra Con in KC for the last couple of years. Yeah, you know those guys with foam swords and elaborate costumes? Yup.

I'm very focused on the human condition, and am a very devoted friend. While generally speaking, I can be easily distracted, people keep my interest. I’m that dude that lets loved ones move in while they are hitting a rough patch. I’ve been known to drive out to try help with broken down cars and then waited in 100 degree weather for the tow truck. I’m not all good though. I am deeply passionate and will sometimes allow that to govern my actions more than my common sense. Also, my sense of humor is a bit crass, but as long as we are all having fun, who cares?

My house is a bit of a zoo. I live with two dogs, a handful of chickens, two parakeets , a small cockatiel who’s in love with me, two cats and a free roaming bunny. Sometimes the bunny fights the cats, but mainly everyone is peaceful. Needless to say, a decent size yard and frequent vacuuming are part of my life as well.

I am very happily married, polyamorous and very open about it. I also have an awesome girlfriend. So, yes, my wife does know I am on here, and she is on here too. No, this isn’t cheating and I won’t help you cheat either. It’s worth mentioning that if my wife isn't cool with us hooking up, it won't happen. I hide nothing from my wife, or anybody I’m in a relationship with. My partners will be informed of developments between us, and I willingly share with them my texts and messages. They don’t always ask, but it is always an option. My loved ones are very important to me, and I won’t intentionally hurt them. So, if you wanna be friend/etc, you gotta be cool with at least interacting with these very important people. This does not mean you’d have no say, or privacy with me. Sound complicated? Way easier than it sounds. And I’m always open to talk about it.
What I’m doing with my life
Really, not much. but that can change, depending on what inspires me. It makes me seem like I'm constantly distracted. So I work most days, I nerd out most days, I sometimes have a plan and others I just go with the flow.
I’m really good at
I know everything, and what I don’t, I make up. Ha! Actually, I seem to know a little bit about most things, I don’t actually presume to know it all. Truth is, I love telling a good story, although I can lecture a bit. You got a good fishing tale? Lay her on me.
I’m told I am good designing steampunk jewelry and guns. I have an eye for artistic endeavors, but a saw damaged my left hand in 2010, so I’m learning how to channel that in new ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm pretty distinct looking, probably my long hair with the grey steak in it. Also that I smell like I smoke cloves, cuz I do.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
There is a lot on that list. Anything science fiction, fantasy, some drama. Foodwise, it's simpler to narrow down what I don't like for food. I don't like okra. I'm not a fan of beans. and I really don't care for Indian food in general., I'm a bit of a metal head. Keep the pop country away from me and that's about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Whatever has captured my interest at the time.
It just dawned on me that I could set up a RPG/boardgame night using okcupid to find players....sweet.
On a typical Friday night I am
Plotting the demise of my players, watching Top Gear with my loved ones, or sometimes, even dancing somewhere downtown. There is not typical Friday night. You got a suggestion to shake things up? Let’s hear it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll answer that if you ask, but I'm not putting it on the internet.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 24–41
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are bored, or think something I said is interesting. Or if you want to start a game night. Seriously.

I just like to meet people, and however it flows is how it flows. If friend becomes more, cool.