Gamer of all sorts, Table top RPGS(Dungeons & Dragons, etc), collectible card games (Magic the Gathering) board games and yes, videogames. I’m an avid reader, from classic American comics (X-men) Manga( Akira), Sci Fi and Fantasy. I attend Cons year round and have been helping organize Contra Con in KC for the last couple of years. Yeah, you know those guys with foam swords and elaborate costumes? Yup.
I'm very focused on the human condition, and am a very devoted friend. While generally speaking, I can be easily distracted, people keep my interest. I’m that dude that lets loved ones move in while they are hitting a rough patch. I’ve been known to drive out to try help with broken down cars and then waited in 100 degree weather for the tow truck. I’m not all good though. I am deeply passionate and will sometimes allow that to govern my actions more than my common sense. Also, my sense of humor is a bit crass, but as long as we are all having fun, who cares?
My house is a bit of a zoo. I live with two dogs, a handful of chickens, two parakeets , a small cockatiel who’s in love with me, two cats and a free roaming bunny. Sometimes the bunny fights the cats, but mainly everyone is peaceful. Needless to say, a decent size yard and frequent vacuuming are part of my life as well.
I am very happily married, polyamorous and very open about it. I also have an awesome girlfriend. So, yes, my wife does know I am on here, and she is on here too. No, this isn’t cheating and I won’t help you cheat either. It’s worth mentioning that if my wife isn't cool with us hooking up, it won't happen. I hide nothing from my wife, or anybody I’m in a relationship with. My partners will be informed of developments between us, and I willingly share with them my texts and messages. They don’t always ask, but it is always an option. My loved ones are very important to me, and I won’t intentionally hurt them. So, if you wanna be friend/etc, you gotta be cool with at least interacting with these very important people. This does not mean you’d have no say, or privacy with me. Sound complicated? Way easier than it sounds. And I’m always open to talk about it.