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29 M Berkeley, CA

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 10:49pm
Asian, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Sensitive and sincere, probably to a fault.

Intersectional feminism / social justice is important to me. I also know when to shut up.

I'm all about flat ontologies, (classical, avant, diy, folk, international, indigenous, etc) music, transgressive/progressive/naïve art, long aimless walks, and other general meanderings …

I tweet (@jonbeilin), flicker, and occasionally tumble ( My portfolio is available at
What I’m doing with my life
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Stuff I've made or am working on:
• A music video for Metronomy
• A career-retrospective series of Eddie Murphy illustrations
• The cover photo for the Xiu Xiu 7" 'Daphny'
• A segment of Michelle Tea's "Valencia" film
• A popular video of a rat on an escalator.

Working on a documentary project that takes a look at underserved communities that are reappropriating tech for radical purposes. Also an Eddie Murphy art book and a photo book dedicated to America's biggest balls of twine.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Shooting myself in the foot, then giving myself lead-poisoning by putting that foot in my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Christopher Alexander, Barthes, Brunt, Susie Cagle, Codex Seraphinianus, Coetzee, Foucault (specifically History of Sexuality Vol. 3), Harraway, Jakobson, Jung (esp Liber Novus/Red Book), Kant, Laozi, Tao Lin, Mishima, Morrison, Murakami, Nabokov, Nin, Orwell, Plath, Pynchon, Sorabji, Wallace, Woodring, Woolf, Yeshe, the Mondo 2000 crew (R. U. Sirius, St. Jude, Queen Mu, et al), +++

Last summer I read sci-fi by queer/women authors: david gerrold, james tiptree jr, joanna russ, le guin, etc. It was fun.

Music: WFMU. Q2. Check my Bach, Coil, Psychic TV, Sublime Frequencies, doom metal, int'l music, jazz, hip hop, hardcore, some rock, a moderate amount of pop and country. Disco.

Movies: Kenneth Anger, Bigelow, Lizzie Borden's "Born In Flames", Maya Daren, Korine, Kubrick, Lynch, Schrader's "Mishima", Gaspar Noe, Solondz, "Wild Zero" … plus almost everything pre-94 starring Eddie Murphy.

Food: Flavorful & spicy vegetarian cuisine from around the world. Unprocessed, natural ingredients. No gluten (not by choice)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, empathy, and death, roughly in that order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Let's be honest: I'm probably staying in working on a project by myself or with friends.
You should message me if
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You're kind and strong and smart. You make things for reasons other than money. You want to go on a library date. You want to light candles and listen to music in the dark. You want to walk and have a picnic. You want to be project-buddies. You want to feel feelings.

I'm currently looking for a relationship with long-term potential, or something less serious that is at least founded on actual friendship.