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29 M Berkeley, CA

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Last Online
Today – 12:53am
Asian, White
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Sensitive and sincere, probably to a fault.

Intersectional feminism is important to me. I have no problem admitting when I'm wrong. I'm wrong a lot!

I'm all about flat ontologies, (classical, avant, diy, folk, international, indigenous, etc) music, transgressive/progressive/naïve art, long aimless walks, and other general meanderings …

I tweet (@jonbeilin), flicker, and occasionally tumble ( My portfolio is available at
What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy making media:
• A career-retrospective series of Eddie Murphy illustrations
• The cover photo for the Xiu Xiu 7" 'Daphny'
• A segment of Michelle Tea's "Valencia" film
• A popular video of a rat on an escalator.

I'm freelancing for consumer tech and volunteering while I develop skills and a new career. Working on a documentary project that takes a look at underserved communities reappropriating tech for radical purposes.
I’m really good at
Shooting myself in the foot, then giving myself lead-poisoning by putting that foot in my mouth.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Christopher Alexander, Barthes, Brunt, Susie Cagle, Codex Seraphinianus, Coetzee, Foucault (specifically History of Sexuality Vol. 3), Harraway, Jakobson, Jung (esp Liber Novus/Red Book), Kant, Laozi, Tao Lin, Mishima, Morrison, Murakami, Nabokov, Nin, Orwell, Plath, Pynchon, Sorabji, Wallace, Woodring, Woolf, Yeshe, the Mondo 2000 crew (R. U. Sirius, St. Jude, Queen Mu, et al), +++

Last summer I read sci-fi by queer/women authors: david gerrold, james tiptree jr, joanna russ, le guin, etc. It was fun.

Music: WFMU. Q2. Check my Bach, Coil, Psychic TV, Sublime Frequencies, doom metal, int'l music, jazz, hip hop, hardcore, some rock, a moderate amount of pop and country. Disco.

Movies: Kenneth Anger, Bigelow, Lizzie Borden's "Born In Flames", Maya Daren, Korine, Kubrick, Lynch, Schrader's "Mishima", Gaspar Noe, Solondz, "Wild Zero" … plus almost everything pre-94 starring Eddie Murphy.

TV: Twin Peaks, Adventure Time, The Wire

Food: Flavorful & spicy vegetarian cuisine from around the world. Unprocessed, natural ingredients. No gluten (not by choice)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, empathy, and death, roughly in that order.
On a typical Friday night I am
Let's be honest: I'm probably staying in working on a project by myself or with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're kind and strong and smart. You make things for reasons other than money. You want to go on a library date. You want to light candles and listen to music in the dark. You want to walk and have a picnic. You want to be project-buddies. You want to feel feelings.

If you want me to take a fancy portrait of you. I love practicing studio photography.

Or if you want cheap tickets to go to the Pacific Film Archive with me.

No basics.