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Asian, White
5' 7" (1.70m)
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Special Diet
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I like to make weird things and go on long walks. I'm an earnest cornball with radical politics. I dislike binaries; I like fluidity in action, identity, and expression.

Half-serious, half-goofoff. Too many emotions. Semi-closeted nerdo.

If you're curious:
Twitter (@jonbeilin)
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What I’m doing with my life
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Pursuing an MFA @ Parsons

Working on a documentary project exploring underserved communities reappropriating tech for radical purposes. It's a slow-burn.

Making a photo book documenting America's biggest balls of twine.

Organizing a track at a social justice conference to teach underprivileged & underrepresented people skills in technology / computer arts / games.
I’m really good at
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Balancing being hyper-analytical and highly-sensitive. Or being 'always so on point', as a friend puts it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Christopher Alexander, Barthes, Brunt, Susie Cagle, Codex Seraphinianus, Coetzee, Foucault (specifically History of Sexuality Vol. 3), Harraway, Jakobson, Jung (esp Liber Novus/Red Book), Kant, Laozi, Mishima, Morrison, Murakami, Nabokov, Nin, Plath, Pynchon, Sorabji, Wallace, Woodring, Woolf, Yeshe, Mondo 2000

Podcasts: MYSTERY SHOW!!!, Fugitive Waves, Radio Diaries, 99pi, Death, Sex, and Money, The Memory Palace, The Nato Sessions, This Is Hell, The Best Show

Music: WFMU. WNYC Q2. Check my Bach, Coil, Lil B, Psychic TV, Sublime Frequencies, doom metal, int'l music, jazz, hip hop, punk/hardcore, some rock, a moderate amount of pop and country. Disco.

Movies: Kenneth Anger, Bigelow, Lizzie Borden's "Born In Flames", Maya Deren, Korine, Kubrick, Lynch, Schrader's "Mishima", Gaspar Noe, Solondz, "Wild Zero" … plus almost everything pre-94 starring Eddie Murphy.

Food: Flavorful & spicy vegetarian cuisine from around the world. Unprocessed, natural ingredients. No gluten (not by choice)!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dismantling oppressive systems. Intersectional feminism. Being Freireian without being too passive.
You should message me if
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You like these date ideas: going on a long walk, listening to records in the dark, drawing on a big roll of newsprint, scouring a library.

You want to exchange a mix-cassette or a mix-VHS. You want to collaborate on a creative project. You're ok with working on different projects while in the same room as a regular thing.