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j_essika

36 F Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:37am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 2″ (1.57m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of space camp
Job
Management
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
There used to be more here, but it was long and people are fussy.

Tl;dr version - slightly nerdy, weird food no's, can't juggle, can ride bike.

Attempted to watch Big Trouble in Little China three times last night and just kept falling asleep. Determined to conquer the classics.

Lots of commentary in the Q&A set.

INFJ, apparently.
What I’m doing with my life
I am not a huge fan of this question because I'm not totally sure...

During my 9-5 I do quite a lot of attending meetings, clicking the buttons on my mouse, staring, typing words, and talking to developers.

As far as my "life" goes - Still searching for the best path forward but in the meantime I'm looking to experience the world and make a bunch of spectacular memories.
I’m really good at
• Packing light
• Making my bed almost every day
• Dancing when no one is looking
• Taking side streets
• Going to Atlanta in July
• I also have lovely penmanship
The first things people usually notice about me
Depends. If they see me, it is probably that I am short. If they hear me, it is probably my laugh, or my sneeze. I don't normally ask people what they first notice about me, and I'm not very likely to do the research, so it's all a guessing game here folks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books are so good! Let's just list Authors though: Tom Holt, Jasper Fforde, Terry Pratchett, A. Lee Martinez, Jack Kerouac, Cory Doctorow, Clive Barker, Christopher Buckley, Christopher Moore, Ernest Cline, Neal Stephenson, Brandon Mull, Robert Rankin, Douglas Adams, J.R.R. Tolkien, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle, Hugh Howey, Laurie R. King, Kurt Vonnegut, Orson Scott Card, Neil Gaiman, Max Barry.

Movie Genres: I generally like comedies, dramas, science fiction, and thrillers. I really don't like gory movies/torture porn. Years ago I was *forced* to go watch Dawn of the Dead, and still sometimes have scary dreams that incorporate imagery from that movie.

Spotify Playlist

Food: I like pretty much all kinds, but have been thinking about this recently and if forced to choose one type of food to eat forever would select "curry" as this selection is nebulous and changeable enough that my mouth would never get bored.
The six things I could never do without
• Something to look forward to
• Corrective lenses
• A sense of place
• Something to read
• Interesting questions/Great conversations
• Streams, lakes, rivers, oceans...
• A pressurized cabin
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What new recipe can I make, why is japanese eggplant so good, what book should I read next, are the people currently staying in my apartment fucking it up? Why does Arnold Schwarzenegger always looks slightly insane? How often WWE storylines intersect with their real lives?
On a typical Friday night I am
For years and years I've preferred going out Sun - Thu instead of Fri/Sat so usually I keep it pretty simple and close to home on a "typical" Friday night. Once a month (more or less) I do get out on Saturday to support a friend's comedy debate show. Tuesday and Wednesday are looking pretty busy in July: Kraftwerk, The Antlers, DJ Krush. Okay - maybe that's not super busy but it feels like it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
The most private thing? Naw. Here are some not-terribly-private things:

I have a cache of blank cards so that I don't have to run to the store if I find myself suddenly needing one. I've never been to the Grand Canyon. I'd like to take a hot air balloon ride. (I'd like to pair these adventures but I think that the canyons would provide a horrendously wild ride.) I've never met a puppy that didn't make me say "Awwww." Disneyworld figures in to my plans for the future, somehow. I might be afraid of heights - when I rode the Ferris Wheel at Navy Pier in Chicago I came very very close to completely losing my shit while in the air. I've been known to drink on a Monday. I rent my apartment out for two months in the summer so that my travels are financially a wash.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 25–43
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
...any of the above sounds interesting and you would like to get together for some coffee, a drink, a game of pool, or... I don't know... anything else that sounds like a fun thing for two relative strangers to do together. Also if you are tall. Everyone LOOKS pretty tall to me but... if you are tall for real. I can't reach a lot of stuff in my cupboards, or on top of my fridge.