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j_gt

45 / M / straight / Single

Natick, Massachusetts

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Intelligent, Dependable, and Spiritual.

My Self-Summary

Four things my friends would say about me are: Intelligent, Loyal, Dependable and Spiritual. I have four children and I want to raise my children in a home where they know they are loved. I want to show them what it is to be a good man, husband and father. Three of my children live with me 50% of the time in a "week on week off" schedule.

I am interested in faith and philosophy, where they intersect and how they complement each other. I think three of my better life skills are: continuing to expand my knowledge and awareness, raising and caring for children, and being a good friend and companion. I like camping and I hope you do too. I went hiking ( backpacking ) once this summer and I want to get back into that. I also hoped to start a garden this year, but it rained too much!

I weighed more in the "shed 05" picture than I do now.

What I’m doing with my life

Raising my children. Wish I was camping, but it got too cold!

I’m really good at

I am really good at conversation, introspective thinking.

The first things people usually notice about me

I am not sure. My green eyes? Maybe you will have to tell me. I have been told I look younger than I am.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I am reading "The Shipping News" which was recommended to me by a good friend. Looking for other recommendations like this book. I have recently read: Clark's "Boundaries", Chapman's "5 Love Languages" and I am presently reading Eldredge's "Wild at Heart".

I tend to like movies that have a combination of good story and that are well constructed. Usually not horror movies.

I like "basic" food. I cook, and I think I am good at it, but my kids often like very simple things, so that is what I make.

The six things I could never do without

Coffee
Outdoors
Faith
Sunshine
Camping
Computer

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Among other things, YOU. I have spent a lot of time thinking about what I am looking for in a life companion. I am telling you this because I think most men either do not know or only have a ruff idea of what they are looking for. That is not me. I would like to talk to you more about this.

On a typical Friday night I am

Half of the Fridays I have 3 boys with me, so I am getting them into there routine. The other Fridays, I am watching a movie at home or talking to friends.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

That I am on 2 other dating sites. I would be interested in knowing if you are on others and why you chose those sites.

You should message me if

You think we match well. Overall I am looking for a woman who is grounded in her Catholic faith and who believes that we, together, are a very good match. I am looking for a high degree of "compatibility".

You set questions to public, and you want to see how that new feature works too. I set about 700 or so to public.

Thanks for reading and good luck!