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30 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 29, 2014
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Okay), LISP (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First and foremost, I am a confident independent man. Everything I've earned in my life has been worked for with blood, sweat and tears and I'd have it no other way. If life was easy, it'd be boring.

Chivalry is not dead.

If you rate me highly don't be a wuss.. send a message! :3
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creep me.
Instagram: revolutionpapi
Twitter: @scumbagjames

My life can best be defined as orderly chaotic.

I am juggling between running 3 companies, being in a band, researching computer security and organizing a non-profit technology initiative. I like to stay busy and I like to kick back when work is done.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making anyone laugh and feel at ease. Moving on..

Listening and interpreting. Playing Devil's Advocate or being a supportive friend. I have a large network of friends and family whom I love very much and never take for granted. I am great at appreciating the nice things people do for me (or themselves!) and assisting people with whatever trials they may be facing at the time.

Analyzing and solving. I live to solve problems and love providing a amendable solution where every party wins.

Being mindful My history for conflict resolution in the face of stress has procured me a reputation for being level headed. Relative to my research, I've been told that I possesses a zen-like wisdom that allows me asses all situations from a place of equanimity. I hope one day to coach people on how to achieve this (ideally for free!)
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
If I'm not initially mistaken for Deadmau5, Eminem or Big Bang Theory's Sheldon, I have been told that my eyes are my most striking feature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Ishmael, World War Z, Atlas Shrugged, 1984, Catcher in the Rye, Shock Doctrine/No Logo, Brave New World, The New Democratic Republic
Currently: Mindful Leadership, Elements of Computer Security, Homeland

The Wire, Arrested Development, Community, Game of Thrones, Workaholics, The Office, How I Met Your Mother
Currently: Sons of Anarchy, The Walking Dead, Boardwalk Empire
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Technology, Nature, Conversation, Progress, Positivity and Confidence.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how the world works and how I can fix it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most likely attending a seminar, reading a book, researching in my house or out meeting people. Unlike many of my nerd counterparts, I never shy away from a social event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I played video games on TV as a kid (Video & Arcade Top 10). I was 12 but I was ambitious!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
.. you rate me. I don't have A-List, so don't be shy!
if you've never believed chivalry, honesty and confidence could co-exist in a man. I'm here to change your mind.