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jaberobi87

26 M Castleton, IN

My Details

Last Online
Aug 20
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Black
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, but not too serious about it
Sign
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Javon. I'm an odd-ball and a bit of a dreamer, who's addicted to Coke (the beverage, obviously), Dark Comedies, and backseat philosophy with a few select friends.

I like playing RPG's, sleeping in late (which, recently, I never seem to get to do!) and reading stories that force you to grow with the characters.

I'm an old soul in a young body.

I'm full of eccentricities and contradictions. I'm passionate and withholding; I'm appreciative if you're open to it, but okay if you're not. I listen to all genres of music and enjoying discovering new forms of entertainment.

I'm a fully-realized and comfortable sexual being; also constantly striving to stay in touch with my emotions. I'm the type of person who fills out these biographical sections earnestly, knowing most people just skim a few words and hop straight towards the pictures and the income section - and am, mostly, okay with that...

More importantly, I'm saavy enough to know in these times, in this economy, the most impressive and coveted commodity one can possess is a Smile.

Luckily, the price of one smile is exactly one smile... I look foward to meeting more people who can do the math.

Poetry was my first love. From Dr. Suess to Pablo Neruda then from Emily Dickinson to Edna St. Vincent Millay; they've all made a substantial impact on my life in some way. As an aspiring poet and novelist, I hope to someday do for others what their work has done for me.

If someone's face can become flushed when they read one of my poems or skin can chill when they come across a specific line of mine, then I'll know I've done right. I still remember the goose flesh I got when reading Edna St.Vincent Millay's "Witch Wife" for the first time. If others can resonate with my work like that; I'll consider myself to be truly blessed!

Basically, to sum myself up: I am curious, passionate, and oft-times lyrical person looking to find someone with just as much passion in their eyes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now, and as always, I am looking forward to finding the mystical in the mundane... Hopeful that I'll find a like-minded soul wandering around here.

Right now, I'm looking to make friends and meet new people around my general area so that when I can go out and cut loose, I have activity partners who are down for new adventures.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Empathizing with others; I am good listener and I like to believe I'm pretty good at offering a helping hand when it's needed -- even if it's not appreciated...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Probably, my voice. Sometimes despite appearances, I'm pretty bubbly and fun-loving. I love to sing and laugh and joke around and I think it really shows. I've more laugh lines on my face then I know what to do with!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Harry Potter, A Few Thistle (Edna St. Vincent Millay... If only I had access to a time machine!), The Perks of Being a Wallflower, Phantom of the Opera, Pablo Neruda's poems and sonnets, Wuthering Heights (Sounds corny, I know, but this book turned my world on it's axis!), Great Expectations, The Count of Monte Cristo, The Redwall series, Eragon/The Inheritance Cycle

Movies: Sleep With Me, Lost and Delirious (Piper Perabo, 'nuff said.), Silence of the Lambs, 28 Days/Weeks Later, Jeff, Who Lives at Home, Rocky Horror, Amelie, SuperBad, Spaceballs (If there was a Church of Mel Brooks--or Synagogue, I suppose--I'd be their main parishioner!), Zombieland, Lars and the Real Girl, Safety Not Guaranteed, Serenity, Before Sunset and Before Sunrise, Akira, Robin Hood: Men in Tights, Sunshine, Star Trek reboot,

T.V.: Firefly ,(Anything by Joss Whedon, actually...), One Piece, Chuck, Legend of the Seeker, Fraiser (David Hyde-Pierce, FTMFW!), Dexter, N.C.I.S., Arrested Development, The League, Guilty Crown, Parks and Rec., Lost Girl, Modern Family, BtVS, Angel, Community, Once Upon A Time, Full Metal Alchemist, Family Guy, Tenchi Muyo

Music: Andre 3000, The Cure, Pearl Jam, Childish Gambino, The Who, Fallout Boy, The Rolling Stones, Jimmy Eat World, The Mountain Goats, Lyke Li, Lana del Rey, Coheed & Cambria, Incubus, Staind, The Smiths, Drake, Imagine Dragons, Wicked Wisdom, Chris Issacks, B.O.A., H.I.M., Mumford and Sons, The White Stripes, J-Cole, Tegan & Sara, Lil Wayne, Live, Disturbed, Faith No More, Danzig, Erykah Badu, Ne-Yo, P.J. Harvey, Kendrick Lamar, Stevie Wonder, Everclear,

Food: BACON!!, Seafood, Persian, and Japanese cuisine
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1.) Family
2.) Passion
3.) Smiles
4.) Imagination
5.) Music
6.) Adventure
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I wish I could honestly say I spend a lot of time contemplating something awesome and quirky like survival scenarios in the event of a zombie apocalypse (which, lets be honest: has flitted through my mind on occasions... Lol) or something stalwart and mature like fiscal responsibility or reducing my carbon foot print, but the fact is that's not me...

I have my spurts of maturity; I have great moments of quirky, off-center adventure; I even master zen-like silence and fancy myself one with the universe around me. Though, when it's all written and tallied, once the last check mark's been checked and the final "I" has been dotted...?

It's the little things I've spent the most time thinking about: "Will I have kids before I'm thirty?" "What if I don't find the 'Love of My Life?'" "What place is open this late and still delivers?" "How can I message so-and-so without it coming off as a tired pickup line?" "Should I buy groceries or party hard on Saturday?" "What's the conspiracy between Volkswagen and hot women ...and why do I not work at Volkswagen?" "How many women wearing yoga pants today actually do yoga or work out?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Usually, decompressing from work, catching up with friends and family and preparing to start my weekend after work on Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm still waiting for that one indelible moment...

The askance glance across a small cafe table or that sterling lilt to an earnest conversation; I want to find that indefinable instance that presses deep into the cockles of your heart and continually wells within you long after the moment has passed.

I want the steady hand of a lifelong friend, along with the eros and curiosity of a burgeoning love affair.

I want the kind of emotions bards score epics and minstrels croon over--that earnest, ceaseless passion that makes scholars struggle to place words to its inscrutable ways.

I want to have that kind of enduring love.

And... I'm not ashamed to say I continue to wait for it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If Honesty is your native language.

If you want a friend.

If you're open to adventure.

If you're interested in looking at life through the other side of the looking glass...