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40 Brooklyn, NY Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Strictly vegetarian
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Italian (Okay), French (Okay), Arabic (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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1. My main personal interests are out-of-country travel and photography.
2. Valentine's Day has always offended me. I am not down with that industrial complex, and will never view it as innocent, never!
3. I'm quite practical, but strongly feel it's important to reach for, or be open to, the sublime/ineffable/"magical" when it comes to one's work, standards, enjoyment of life.
4. I tried and failed to make a salt-and-pepper shaker set of Siskel and Ebert when the latter was in town for a book signing a few years ago.
5. I admit I am not attuned to nature like other people can be, but it's not for lack of trying. At heart I'm a city person, and am more interested in people, cultures, languages, villages, the fishermen rather than the sea, blah blah blah…. I'm happy to go hiking but less happy to go camping, though cabin-ing is a fine compromise. That said, I'm going camping on a remote island for a week—it's often good to shake the cognitive snowglobe—but it very well might be the end of me, or conversely quite enlightening.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Day job.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Traveling and being moderately uncomfortable doing so.
Trying to think big picture.
Color-sorting, but not with books.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Out-of-context hat-wearing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies: La Dolce Vita, Nights of Cabiria, Afterlife, Ugetsu, Yojimbo, Hara-Kiri, The Dream Life of Angels, A Prophet, A Separation, Groundhog Day, Talk to Her, The Celebration, Breaking the Waves, Poetry, Hero, Floating Weeds, My Life as a Dog, Tokyo Story, Paris, Texas, Inglourious Basterds, Let the Right One In, Gaslight, Rope, Psycho, Nobody Knows, Les Bonnes Femmes, High and Low, Fucking Amal, Together, Alien…
Books: Imagined Communities, The Savage Detectives, Lolita, A History of the Modern Middle East, The Virgin Suicides
Music: Neu!, Michael Rother, La Dusseldorf, Lubomyr Melnik (when in mood), Scarlatti, Beach House, The Cocteau Twins, Curve, New Order (but not Depeche Mode; help me understand why, please), Ethiopiques series
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Camera, film, soap, plush Freud, fez, afternoon light
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to go next.
"Technology's effects on authentic human interaction," and how to get out of the tedious binary arguments and conclusions about this. Surely a compromise can be found.
Burqas and those who love them.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Passed out (due to fatigue), or having a lovely conversation with a lovely person of some kind. Or taking advantage of pay-as-you-wish-at-museum night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I could have been nicer to my first hamster.
You should message me if
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you like to toss around hypothetical (and possibly irrelevant) questions
you believe in the phrase "open your eyes"
you believe in the humanist project despite it all and that damn sontag (though i also love her at times)
*or not*