Whether familial, fraternal, or intimate, my relationships define me more than anything else.
I come from a big family in size and number: there are six of us and we’re all six feet tall or taller! I love our family reunions where there’s always promise to be southern, filling food, stomach-ache level laughing, and a rare group of people who are at once as competitive and loving as I am. While I am strikingly different from my family (they are incredibly religious and conservative), we have an abiding love for one another that more than overcomes our differences. They are insanely important to me and I will go to great ends to support them.
In general, I am slow to trust others, but with time I come to trust completely. Once there, I am one of the most caring, loyal friends you will meet. I’m an extrovert at heart and love that I have friends from diverse ages, walks of life, cultures, and countries. I’m probably one of the most romantic people you’ll meet. As I’m hesitant about relationships, I let my friendships be my romantic outlet. Thus, sunset picnics with friends are my favorite. Have you been at town lake, the Hancock Golf Course, Mount Bonnell, and the Capitol at sunset? You should. Bike rides. Sleep overs. Wine and reading. Sharing stories. Bougie brunches. Jazz bars. Art. Performances. Spontaneous road trips. Letters of gratitude. These are a few of my favorite things.
I take intimate relationships as seriously as the rest. I want to find a partner in adventure and eventually have a family of our own. This said, I am not looking to rush into anything. I’ve done that before and no longer entertain unrealistic ideas of what love ought to be. I have a well-defined sense of self and purpose. I am not looking for someone to complete my life, but rather someone with whom I can share it.
In general, I strive to be balanced and open-minded. I want to work hard so that I can play hard. I want to recognize my needs and fulfill these while aiding those around me and striving to have a positive impact on the world. I am competitive, resolute, and at times stubborn. I get along with almost all people I encounter and love to get to know what makes people who they are. I am unapologetically optimistic but my optimism is tempered with experience, and my positive expectations for the future are backed with intentional hard work. Always, in everything I do, I seek to be on a path of constant improvement and self-discovery. Each stage of life has unique beauty and I can’t wait fully experience all of it (who wouldn't want to be a sweet grandpa one day?).
My goal in writing this profile is create an honest snapshot of my ever-changing life in the hope that I can attract true friends and relationships. Hope you enjoy!