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Jack_Oaks

22 / M / Bisexual / Available

Carrboro, North Carolina

His Details

Last Online
May 20
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly vegan
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Masculine Jewish pansexual/queer man.

Likes:
-Tinkering with bicycles and mechanical things
-Bikes
-Animals
-Long walks in the woods
-Being out and about and extroverted
-Cooking
-Talking Religion, Books, and Movies
-Adventuring
-Thrift Shopping
-Sewing/Crafts
-Building Things
-Listening
-Clothes
-Trying to Re-decorate my apartment

Into:
-Trans, and gender queer folks
-Cis guys and gals
-Polyamory
-All kinds of friendships and relationships
-Kink
-Trying new things
-LGBTQI lmnop, apples and oranges, they're all fruits to me : )

Just moved back to Chapel-Hill from Carrboro and Apex before that. I have a great job here helping folks with intellectual and physical disabilities and I love it. In my time off I like to walk and bike around chapel hill/carrboro, finding places with tasty vegan food, going to shows, thriting, trying to make new friends, looking for new things to do around this town and the rest of the triangle.

pareveinabox is my primary partner, we are in a committed, loving, poly-amorous relationship and I'm currently open to new friends and dates.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working in the field of intellectual disability care and really enjoy it but I'm not sure what a "long-term career" for me will look like. I'm in Carrboro/Chapel-Hill for this (and maybe next year). I'm not sure where things are headed after that. I'm also currently trying to get more of an education but we'll see how that goes one step at a time. I generally keep busy with work, but am looking for new friends/lovers/whatevers in the area.

In general I spend a fair amount of my time:
-Interpreting the divine secrets of the universe
-Making messes
-Fixing things
-Making Plans
-SOBER PARTYING!
-Meeting new people
-Dancing the night away
-Thrifting
-Cooking (like everyday y'all, it is one of my favorite things to do)
-Watching more Netflix TV shoes than I'd like to admit
I’m really good at
-Fixing things
-Cooking
-Discussing obscure political and philosophical ideas
-Board Games
-Listening
-Learning new things
-Finding great deals on things (Jew much?)
The first things people usually notice about me
-I can be loud and excitable
-My beard is red and my hair is brown
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
*Shows - I'm pretty about some Netflix instant: Trailer Park Boys, Arrested Development, The Walking Dead (but after this past season I may be done with this show), Queer as Folk, Queer Eye for the Straight Guy (I kind of hate myself for liking this show), 30 Rock, and Ramsey's Kitchen Nightmares

*Food - I love some Vegan cooking by me and other folks. I'm constantly trying to eliminate wheat and sugar from my life but with limited success. I really like to have fun cooking whatever is fresh and in season in creative new ways. In terms of eating out, my favorites are definitely Thai, Vietnamese, Mediterranean, and kitchy Vegan Americana stuff. I also have an occasional soft spot in my heart for greasy Chinese take-out (Sesame Tofu anyone?)

*Books - Currently, a lot of really dry historical stuff about the Jews and the Hebrew bible for the most part. Also lots of out there raw foods stuff. Other favorites include, Kurt Vonnegut, EE Cummings, Spectacular Happiness, Cormac McCarthy, William Faulkner, Andrea Gibson, and Shane Koyczan. Gender and Feminism stuff including: Bell Hooks, Matilda Bernstein, Twice Blessed, and Queer Jews among many other things. Also I enjoy graphic novels and comics quite a bit, no so big on the super-hero stories though. My favorite is definitely the Lucifer series.

*Music - As with many things my taste in music is wide, scattered, and fairly unrelated. I grew up really into punk and hardcore in high school. I still enjoy many bands in that genre like: Lifetime, Jawbreaker, Graf Orlock, Comadre, The Clash, Joy Division, And just about everything in-between. I also enjoy many kinds of metal, indie rock, rap and hip-hop, electronic and dance music, country, old time, glam-rock, and lots of mindless pop from every generation.

*Movies - I love movies and I love nerding out about how shots are done, lighting, stories, and dialogue. I love way too many to name but if you throw a title at me I've very likely seen it and will immediately tell you how I feel about it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Everything all at once.
On a typical Friday night I am
-Making Kiddush and munching challah
-Hanging with folks
-Adventuring
-Exploring
-Resteraunting
-Going out
-Going to shows
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've got a fet-life account
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, activity partners, casual sex
You should message me if
You live near me and are looking for friends, dates, or anything in-between. Bonus points if you're a non-smoker and are veg or vegan. +100 points if you're another Jew. +1800 points if you're another queer Jew.