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30 Berkeley, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 29–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Jan 26
White, Other
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm from LA but have made the Bay my home since I moved up here for school over a decade ago. And no, I'm not a stereotypical LA girl, so get that thought out of your head...although I did grow up rollerblading down the bike path in Venice beach. I love it up here and there's nowhere else I'd rather be right now, especially after living in both Spain and Mexico and always getting my fix of international travel. Some people would describe me as a Latina trapped in a white girl's body. What can I say? I love cultures that are warm, relationship-oriented (as opposed to workaholic), and know how to enjoy life!

And what's my recipe for enjoying life? Adequate doses of laughter, music, dancing, traveling, good food, even better company, and sunshine. Don't get me wrong--I enjoy working, and I work hard. But I definitely know how to take advantage of my weekends and 3 months of vacation. I'm perfectly content staying home with a book or one of my many favorite shows and a glass of wine, but I also love going out and creating spontaneous adventures.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
besides enjoying it (see above), making sure kids get a solid edumacation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
unconsciously memorizing lyrics and then lip-synching in my car or on the dance floor
baking chocolate chip cookies (chewy, unless I happen to be baking and drinking wine simultaneously...)
planning, when necessary
remembering (usually important/often useless) details
having a good eye and a good ear, or so I've been told
teasing...all in good fun. I can equally take it and dish it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile...and that LA face with an Oakland booty. Good thing you CAN trust a big butt and a smile. (If you're lost, we're probably not compatible.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The Wire. Breaking Bad. Dexter. Homeland. The Daily Show. Chappelle. GoT. John Oliver (love him).

Amores Perros. The Shawshank Redemption. Hable con ella. The Sword in the Stone. La vita e bella. Django Unchained.

The Catcher in the Rye. Tuesdays with Morrie. Memoirs of a Geisha. Plenty of non-fiction.

My musical taste is pretty eclectic, but I always love getting down to old school hip-hop/R&B. I'm also a fan of house music and crave my monthly dose of salsa.

I could go on and on about food...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
family and friends (obvio).
my passport.
dark chocolate.
loud music.
at the risk of sounding trite, a positive attitude and a good sense of humor!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next meal. my next trip. and while thinking about all my future meals and trips, how I should be more present minded.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with friends in Oakland or the city, whether it be checking out a new restaurant, bar hopping, or dancing. Or at home lazing around after a run.

On an even better Friday, I'm out of the country ;)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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My parents have been together for 35 years and are still best friends. That's what I want.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You don't have any photos of yourself standing in front of a mirror with a phone in your hand. Cut. We've all taken selfies but keep your selfies to your self(ie). :)

you're intelligent and witty but can also be incredibly goofy and appreciate my quirky side. I'm looking for someone who will challenge me to learn, is passionate about life, and can laugh with me (and often at me). You have to be adventurous, open-minded, driven, and genuine. I have my ish together-I hope you do, too!