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26 Winston-Salem, NC Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-30
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 11:15am
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Not at all
Other but it’s not important
Two-year college
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I don't really know what to say. I love to talk, just not about myself. goes. I am a writer. I write fantasy, poetry, and music (sometimes). I am also into woodcarving and woodburning, which people seem to find a little strange, but it is all about creation. Whether I do it with words or with wood, it works out the same. I am a Gemini, and I was born on a national holiday that no one really celebrates anymore. What else? I tend to be shy and reserved when around people I don't know, but people who do know me wish they knew how to shut me up. Hahaha. I use meditation to keep myself calm throughout the entire day. I have been called cold and callous, but I just don't know how to articulate my feelings. I can have an attitude at times, when I get riled up about something, but most times I am pretty apathetic. (Which is something I am not proud of). I tend to follow the crowd, so to speak, unless I feel strongly enough about something. I am very sarcastic. At times, my friends can't tell when I am being serious or just being sarcastic.

I am Creative, Intelligent, and Modest
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently working as a Security Officer for a security firm. I would like to join a police department and see where that leads. I love to write(ain't it obvious!) and I spend as much time on that as I can. I have published a book of poetry and I also am working on getting a fantasy book for teens published, so...cross your fingers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, writing, writing. Or anything literary, really.

Cross-Stitch...Crochet, Drawing, Painting, (not very well, lol),cheese-making,Cider-making, and though I'm still searching for the perfect combination of apples and spices. I have also developed an interest in gardening over the last couple of years.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really know what the first thing people usually notice about me is. It usually takes a few days for me to get noticed at all. I guess if I had to pick something, it would be how well-read I am. I wanted to say smart, but that sounded way too pretentious. I am very well-read and I enjoy helping others with their writing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite books: I've recently become enamored of the Mistborn series. The Blue Sword. Has been for years, since I first read it when I was twelve. And the book Triss, by Brian Jacques.
The Count of Monte Cristo, and The Curse of Capistrano

Favorite movies: Thor, Avengers, pretty much all the Marvel movies. Anything with Tom Hiddleston or Benedict Cumberbatch in it.

Favorite tv-shows: Doctor Who, The Librarians, Leverage, Firefly, Arrow, Criminal Minds, Crossing Lines, Midsomer Murders, Agatha Christie's Poirot, Agatha Christie's Miss Marple, Peaky Blinders, Poldark, QI, Marvel's Agent Carter, The Flash, Murdoch Mysteries, Blood Ties, Moonlight, Gotham, The Doctor Blake Mysteries, Death in Paradise, Pushing Daisies, The Dresden Files, Sleepy Hollow. Just to name a few.....

Favorite Music: I like pretty much everything except rap,
some fav bands/singers are: Linkin Park, Switchfoot, Journey, Chicago, Boston, Simple Plan, Keith Urban, Alan Jackson, Shania Twain, Zack Brown Band, Owl City, Sara Evans, Darius Rucker, and Martina McBride...And CHRISTIAN KANE! Oh that man is fine!!

Favorite foods: Now that is a tough one: Spinach, chicken, potatoes, and anything chocolate. Sounds like a whole meal doesn't it? Mmmmm But really, I'll eat anything except beets...hate beets...beets are evil...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I don't know about six things, but I know one for sure, my laptop. In fact, I wouldn't be typing this right now if I didn't have it. I would go NUTS if I couldn't get online. My carving tools for flashdrive, all of my work is on, I don't think anyone can do without food...and I guess the final thing would have to be my good luck charm, an teddy bear named Fuzzapump....Yes Fuzzapump...Don't laugh.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My writing. I am always planning out the next chapter or developing a new idea in my head. And sometimes, I think about humanity in general. the duality of most human beings.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying up late playing a game on my laptop, because I have no life. Sometimes I IM friends, and on the occasion that I am restless, I meditate. Sometimes I watch movies or read a book. It just depends really.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies.
You should message me if
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You should message me if you have story ideas that you want to talk about. I will do a collaberation with anyone, if the storyline is sound. I am willing to talk to anyone about anything...if you wanna talk, don't be shy.