I navigate as best I can by Yogi Berra's thought, "You can see a lot by just looking." Paying attention to you, to what moves you, and me, is my aim in every interaction. There's nothing more challenging that I know. If I knew who I was, it would be obvious. "First, know yourself" is easy to say. What I am is civilized, literate, widely traveled professional, culturally Jewish, spiritually eclectic, idiosyncratically left wing, an intellectual, but not a snob. I like to think I'm a gentleman. I'm sexually _extremely_ adventurous, kinky, and quite dominant in a low-key sort of way. See answers to questions for more details.
I'm not monogamous*, not jealous or possessive. I'm in an open relationship with a wonderful women, but I think that love, like knowledge, is enhanced, not diminished, by sharing. Time is limited, but if we are right for each other, we will make time. I pay attention to whoever I'm with. I'm looking for friends as well as partners: if you're smart, fast, funny, slightly twisted, and we share interests, we can just enjoy each other's company or see if more develops.