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36 Zürich, Switzerland Man


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  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 10" (1.79m)
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Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), Russian (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I sometimes take things from the person behind me in the supermarket queue at the register and pay it for them.
I like driving around the city very slowly with the windows down and very loud "Volksmusik" coming out of my speakers (yes, it's terrible music, but I find it so grotesquely terrible that I can laugh at its dumbness for hours). At my university, I sometimes went to the cafeteria's piano and started playing military marches to see if someone would complain (I am a pacifist!). When I buy flowers, I present them to the florist and ask her if she wants to marry me.

As a child, I had a lot of hamsters. None of them lived longer than a year, and the stories of how they died were popular at my school.

I am a warm, expressive and sensitive person who can give a lot of feeling and warmth. I am often absent-minded and wrapped up in my thoughts and fantasies.

I really hate my username here, but don't want to pay to change it.
What I’m doing with my life
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A cultural scientist and language enthusiast working in the "internet industry". I have a decent job, but my private life could be better.
I’m really good at
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- losing things (especially glasses and umbrellas (who needs umbrellas anyway?))
- losing my orientation in even small cities (probably because I am from a tiny village) -> thanks to online map services, I no longer get lost too often, but I also don't accidentally discover those great spots you never knew existed anymore
- forgetting things
- being so ironic that it often gets a little too sarcastic
- posting stupid things on the internet
The first things people usually notice about me
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A lot of people often don't know whether I am joking or being serious. I have to work on that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some books I liked as an adult:
* Hermann Hesse: Steppenwolf
* Fyodor Dostoyevsky: Crime and Punishment
* Paul Auster: Moon Palace and New York Trilogy (long time ago, but still in good memory)
* Nicholas Carr: The Shallows
* Michel Houellebecq: The Elementary Particles
* Juli Zeh: Corpus Delicti

Favorite childhood/youth books:
* Kafka: Die Verwandlung
* Michael Ende: Momo und die grauen Herren (had a big influence on my childhood)
* Gudrun Pausewang: Die Wolke
* Orwell: 1984
* Huxley: Brave New World
* Shaw: Pygmalion

Movies: I like watching them, but I usually forget them two days after watching them. I also don't know movie stars, and apart from some exceptions (Stromberg), I don't watch soaps. I don't understand why people still have TVs if everything can be accessed through the internet.

I think that there is something interesting and beautiful in almost every type of music, you just have to be open to listen to it for a while which most people aren't. They just prefer to listen to boring, predictable pop music.
I play the piano and make my own music. Some of the more popular music I listen to and like:
* Chilly Gonzales
* Chick Corea
* Jeff Wayne
* Thomas Lindstrom and Prins Thomas
* The soundtrack to the movie "Drive"
* in Switzerland, I have (re-)discovered "Patent Ochsner"'s nice, warm, soothing music. Just a bit too cheesy at times.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in this order:
- piano
- computer
- a good bed (I need really comfortable positions to sleep well)
- and some more I forgot
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is just.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admit it here it is no longer private.
You should message me if
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* you are a warm and tolerant person who doesn't mind hugs
* you don't mind being a little freaky or unusual sometimes
* You don't wear clothes that have their brand names all over it (Dolce & Gabbana sunglasses will make you 2 kilos heavier)
* You are not into a schicki-micki luxury type of culture but can still appreciate a good glass of wine, food, concerts or theatre
* you need someone to hit the road with you on your bike, or if you need a basketball partner :)
* you want to