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36 Zürich, Switzerland Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 23–37
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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5′ 10″ (1.79m)
Body type
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Polish (Fluently), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a former idealist (INFP) that has become a pragmatist, but often regrets not being an idealist anymore.

On the one hand, I am interested in the extraordinary within the seemingly ordinary, regular, every-day habits we take for granted and don't think about much. That's why I like taking pictures of trash. It shows what is "normal" in peoples' lives, what they consume every day, and what they do not value anymore because they throw it away.

On the other hand, I like the peculiar, unusual and sometimes freaky and other-worldly.

I sometimes take things from the person behind me in the supermarket queue at the register and pay it for them. I sometimes walk around in short pants with knee-high black socks (that way, all women turn around to look at you!). I like driving around the city very slowly with the windows down and very loud "Volksmusik" coming out of my speakers (yes, it's terrible music, but I find it so grotesquely terrible that I can laugh at its dumbness for hours). At my university, I sometimes went to the cafeteria's piano and started playing military marches to see if someone would complain (I am a pacifist!). When I buy flowers, I present them to the florist and ask her if she wants to marry me.

I like cats, but not their hair. I think dogs are funny, but some of them smell. :) As a child, I had a lot of hamsters. None of them lived longer than a year, and the stories of how they died were popular at my school.

I am a very warm, expressive and sensitive person who can give a lot of feeling and warmth. I am often absent-minded and wrapped up in my thoughts and fantasies.

I really hate my username here, but I chose it about 14 years ago when I spent a year in Massachusetts doing volunteer service with teens. Now I can't change it anymore without upgrading. I don't even know why it's "fifteen", I was 20 already back then...
What I’m doing with my life
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A cultural scientist and language enthusiast working in the "internet industry". I have a decent job, but my private life could be better.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- losing things (especially glasses and umbrellas (who needs umbrellas anyway?))
- losing my orientation in even small cities (probably because I am from a tiny village) -> thanks to online map services, I no longer get lost too often, but I also don't accidentally discover those great spots you never knew existed anymore
- forgetting things
- being so ironic that it often gets a little too sarcastic
- posting stupid things on the internet
The first things people usually notice about me
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A lot of people often don't know whether I am joking or being serious. I have to work on that.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some books I liked as an adult:
* Hermann Hesse: Steppenwolf
* Fyodor Dostoyevsky: Crime and Punishment (wow!)
* Paul Auster: Moon Palace and New York Trilogy (long time ago, but still in good memory)
* Nicholas Carr: The Shallows
* Michel Houellebecq: The Elementary Particles
* Juli Zeh: Corpus Delicti

Favorite childhood/youth books:
* Kafka: Die Verwandlung
* Michael Ende: Momo und die grauen Herren (had a big influence on my childhood)
* Gudrun Pausewang: Die Wolke
* Orwell: 1984
* Huxley: Brave New World
* Shaw: Pygmalion

Movies: I like watching them, but I usually forget them two days after watching them. I also don't know movie stars, and apart from some exceptions (Stromberg), I don't watch soaps. I don't understand why people still have TVs if everything can be accessed through the internet.

I think that there is something interesting and beautiful in almost every type of music, you just have to be open to listen to it for a while which most people aren't. They just prefer to listen to boring, predictable pop music.
I play the piano and make my own music. Some of the more popular music I listen to and like:
* Chilly Gonzales
* Mike Oldfield: Especially "Ommadawn"
* Chick Corea
* Jeff Wayne's Musical Version of the War of the Worlds
* Thomas Lindstrom and Prins Thomas
* The soundtrack to the movie "Drive"
* Being new in Switzerland, I have (re-)discovered "Patent Ochsner"'s nice, warm, soothing music. Just a bit too cheesy at times.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Not necessarily in this order:
- piano
- computer
- a good bed (I need really comfortable positions to sleep well)
- and some more I forgot
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what is just.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seriously, I am usually very tired after a week of work and prefer just relaxing at home on Friday nights.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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If I admit it here it is no longer private.
You should message me if
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* you are a warm and tolerant person who doesn't mind hugs
* you don't mind being a little freaky or unusual sometimes
* You don't wear clothes that have their brand names all over it (Dolce & Gabbana sunglasses will make you 2 kilos heavier)
* You are not into a schicki-micki luxury type of culture but can still appreciate a good glass of wine, food, concerts or theatre
* you need someone to hit the road with you on your bike, or if you need a basketball partner :)
* you want to