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47 Saratoga Springs, NY Man


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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
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Graduated from university
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I like to look at the moon. I especially like to swim under it in a lake, river, waterfall or some other type of swimming hole. And I hate the fact that I can only do this three months a year. At the most.

I used to travel and move around a lot. I'd work as a bartender for nine months or so, save as much money as I could, then quit and travel for four to six months. Then move to a different place or wherever I ended up. But that was in my younger days. I've lived in Boston, DC, Barcelona and San Juan, Puerto Rico.

I like the night life, going out for dinner and drinks. But I'm not some crazy, drunken party guy. (Maybe in my youth).

I like my alcohol to taste like alcohol. No juice, no soda, no sugar of any sort. Just straight. Maybe a bit of water. But I don't actually like the taste of alcohol.

I consider myself a feminist but I'm also chivalrous.

I like to go to thrift stores and antique stores. I like everything I own to be interesting to look at. Unique. And that goes for things like my telephone, toaster, couch, desk, lamps and TV.

If I were a woman, I stand naked in front of a mirror all day and just look at myself.

I'm very liberal. Except for my use of condiments and sauces, which I prefer to use sparingly.

I'm artsy but I'm not artistic. (Except on Halloween). Even though I went to an art school. Majored in creative writing.

I don't set goals for myself when it comes to Love. I've met people who say they want to be married within two years or something. I think that's weird. You go out, you have a good time, you do it agian, you do it more often and suddenly you realize you can't live without the person. I guess that's the ideal. And, I guess, that's ultimately what I want. But I'm okay with going out, if there's no romantic sparks but friendship develops, that's almost as good. Almost. And it's also okay if you have dinner, there's absolutely no connection and you go your seperate ways. Even then, at least there's food involved.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to Saratoga five years ago, from Miami, to help a friend start a business. The business just took off and I stayed.

I used to read a lot and I'd like to get back to doing some more of that.

I have my vices but I lead a fairly healthy life style.
I’m really good at
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People watching. I like to observe people and come up with their stories. I think I get it right a lot of the times. Maybe I should start asking them so I can keep track of my stats.


Doing things by myself. If I want to do something, see a band, go out for a drink, take a trip, and no one wants to go, fuck it, I'll go by myself. Sometimes I prefer it.

I'm also pretty good a doing shots of tequila (no salt or lime).

I'm good at expressing myself; articulately expressing what's on my mind in a very straight-forward, matter-of-fact fashion. (And people who aren't able to do this, or simply don't do it, bug the hell out of me).
The first things people usually notice about me
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I really don't know. I used to have long hair and a lot of people would notice that, or comment about it. But, again, that was in my younger days.

When I where my glasses I get a lot of funny looks and smiles. As if people are resisting cracking up in my face. But I don't mind. My glasses are cool.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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BOOKS: Confederacy of Dunces, John Steinbeck (especially East of Eden), Kurt Vonnegut, James Thurber, Jane Austin, earlier John Irving, Phillip Roth, Fyodor Dostoyevsky (I hope I spelled that right), Joyce Carol Oates, Rule of the Bone by Russell Banks, Gabriel Garcia Marquez, Catch 22 and Mark Twain.

MOVIES: The Godfather, Raising Arizona (the Coen Brothers are the most consistently good), True Romance, An American Werewolf in London, Casablanca and To have and Have Not (Humphrey Bogart was my childhood hero and the reason why, at age 13, smoked cigarettes and wore a fedora), The In-Laws (the original with Peter Falk and Alan Arkin), Election, Dick, con-man movies like Paper Moon, The Sting and The Grifters, earlier Woody Allen especially Annie Hall, Manhatten and Sleeper.

MUSIC: All genres of music have some good but it's not likely to be heard on the radio. Electronica, Louis Armstrong, M.I.A., The Clash, Hank Williams (the first [although I hear the third is doing some good stuff]), Portishead, Liz Phair (1st album), Nouvelle Vague, John Coltrane, Beck, Patsy Cline, Lyle Lovette and The Beasties. Lately, fun rock/pop like The XX, The Kills, Regina Spektor, Edward Sharpe and the Magnetic Zeros and maybe Feist.

FOOD: French, Indian, Chinese, Italian, American or all of the above mixed together. I like junk food but am doing a very good job of avoiding it and eating healthy.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Breathing
2. Water
3. Sleep
4. Food
5. The proper amount of blood running through my veins
6. Sex

I'm pretty adaptable; take something away from me and I'll figure out how to get along without it. The exceptions being my Love and my son.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people act and behave the way they do. What motivates them to be an asshole. What issues do they have. And I'm good at getting to the heart of the matter.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
These questions are really stupid. Honestly, am I supposed to list all the movies and music I like? How the fuck am I supposed to know what people notice about me first? On a typical Friday night I don't eat meat, honor the Sabbath, play football and thank God it's....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like to strangle kittens with my bare hands. (Sorry, I'm really getting tired of these questions). I hope I didn't just blow any chance I may have had with you.
You should message me if
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You realize I'm joking about the kittens, the Friday night thing and the condiments.