self summaries are tough, but id say kind and motivated guy who likes to have fun times and serious ones too . it would be great to meet a beaux or a new friend as well. the idea of meeting an equal, both spiritually and emotionally, has great appeal. like my quiet times with a book or a fun night out with friend or that special someone.

work very hard and actually enjoy it most of the time......take work seriously and at the same time working on the balance thing.

im good at a few things, being a good friend, cooking a more than decent meal, being nice to folks on the street and problem solving as well.

im told i have a nice way about me and command some kind of presence. my personality has not hurt me in life for sure

i like to read voraciously at times or not at all for a while. love patterson and grisham and the like but can read something historical or more serious as well.......sedaris can be silly but does emote a big smile and a laugh. im stuck in the 70's for music and like all kinds of movies, tho not sci fi or horrors...........life has enough adventure as it is.

i can do without a lot of things but cant give up my siblings and the rest of my family, my oldest best friends, cooking to relax, the new york post ( i admit this atleast), white wine and crisp white sheets

i think about the old people who are gone whom i could have learned more from and i think about when is the next time i can take a walk in the country or play with a dog, and of course sex!

fridays tend to be quiet for me as i work pretty hard during the week, a quiet dinner at home or out, a good movie in bed in the winter or drinks outside in the spring and summer

i wear my heart on my sleeve and when i get to know someone will pretty much give it all up for the sake of honesty and communication

message me if you think im for you or you are for me.