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56 M Suffield, CT

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 45–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from law school
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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I am a family man. I have a son, age nine, who is the center of my universe. If you have children, that's great by me. Our family includes a big goofy Yellow Lab who is friendly to everyone and everything.

I am a widower who lost his wife to cancer at far too young an age, an event that still staggers me with the sheer injustice of it all.

Some years back, I did the law school thing and passed the bars of Maine and Massachusetts, but ultimately remained in the software engineering field for the benefit of my family. Some day, when I "retire," I may open my own little practice somewhere, just for the fun of it.

I own my own home, an endless work in progress. Next up is a major bathroom remodeling.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Progressing, eagerly and optimistically.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I love bike riding. I like riding my motorcycle. I like fly fishing when it involves a swiftly moving stream. Notice a trend? I enjoy the meditative feeling of motion.

I like the sound of my Keurig pumping coffee straight into my veins first thing in the morning. I like the sound of not getting out of bed before 8 am on a Sunday morning. I love hunting fireflies with my son.

I like hiking and camping, but I am not opposed to finding a nice B&B or well stocked cabin at the end of the trail.

I can fix things without cursing too much. [Define "too much"]
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Funny, he doesn't look like a superhero."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For music, a random sampling from my overstuffed iPod includes: Steven Reich (over and over again), Abby Lincoln, The Eagles, Zac Brown Band, Springsteen, Aaron Copland, Foreign Service Learn Chinese recordings, Jay Nash (if you haven't listened to Jay Nash, please do, then message me to thank me for turning you on to him.)
Current book: Finding Your Way without Map or Compass. Some book about retiring and riding your motorcycle around the country. Fukuyama's State Building.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My son.
The love of a good dog.
My Kindle.
My house, which is modest and an endless work in progress, but which has a large backyard.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I hate snakes, so I spend a fair amount of time thinking, "Damn, I hope that's not a snake..."
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding snakes.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I truly liked being a husband and for the most part, I was pretty good at it.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Any of the following apply to you:
1. You have a killer recipe for barbecued ribs.
2. You love Sunday morning romance and coffee.
3. Even in the very worst of times, you think life is simply wonderful.