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jacobWolfcloud

49 / M / gay / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am intense, Intelligent, and spiritual.

My Self-Summary

I am a force of nature. I have a whole lot of passion! And I want someone who can match me toe-to-toe with his own passion, drive and creativity. I'm ready to meet a guy who can really keep up! I fill up a room with light and energy. I write fantasy fiction, science fiction, murder mysteries. And I love having someone to share my writing with, where we stimulate each others' creativity.

I'm looking for someone who wants a lot of honesty and lots of growth. I'm always extending myself, always expanding, and we should meet if you can ground yourself and still grow and expand fully.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm an author, teacher, spiritual coach and radio host. I'm an entrepreneur. I have a full-time coaching practice. My schedule is a bit erratic, but I always work to make sure we both get everything we need. I work with my clients one-on-one to challenge their belief systems, to challenge the world on where I think it's not kind to itself and others. I'm also kind of a troublemaker. I won't leave the status quo alone.
I have a wide variety of interests, so I want you to be comfortable with that. And GREAT at communication. I'm a spiritual counselor and life coach, so communication is very important in my life. I love artists, philosophers & anyone that asks good questions. Be as good at an intellectual orgasm as a physical one! :-D

I love an initiator. If you say "Let's go kayaking, I'm there!" If you say, "Let's go hiking," I'm there. I want someone who can keep up & stand up. I want someone who will stand up to me, and not be afraid of everything I have to offer. I want a guy who is social and interactive. I want someone independent, maybe even an easy-going social planner. I love being social, but I don't love planning it.

I'd love to curl up with a guy. One time, I had a guy who would read books to me as I fell asleep in his arms. I loved that. I found it very nurturing. I'm an absolute silly romantic, and proud of it. I would love it, if you were too!

I’m really good at

Communicating, being supportive, adventurous and playful.

The first things people usually notice about me

My eyes, my energy and my intensity.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I enjoy fantasy fiction, historical, satire, essayist, some science fiction, philosophical, biographical and humorous kinds of books & movies. I like almost any kinds of food and enjoy cooking as well as dining out. Music I am everywhere but acid rock, hip hop and still don't quite get opera- everything else is on my ipod, in fact even some of the above mentioned categories are there as I try to be willing to expand my musical taste.

The six things I could never do without

Friends, daily spiritual practices, good conversation, music, books and writing.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

growing and expanding myself as a person, taking my work to the next level and some plot point in a book I am writing.

On a typical Friday night I am

No such thing

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I chant everyday that I am now bringing into my life a deeply connected, powerfully passionate, loving, intimate life partnership.

You should message me if

you enjoy intensity, think outside the box and can play like child at a drop of a hat. I don't do drama( did it in my 20's) but I have been told by the people who have shared their life with me that life with me has never been boring. So if you get the ancient Chinese curse, "May you live in interesting times" and are up for an adventure, message me.