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29 Madison, WI Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 22
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and laughing about it
Two-year college
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I feel that I live a fairly laid-back life. I don't drink (though I don't mind people who drink a little). I've been socially shy my whole life and don't go out often, but lately I've been starting to get out more and when I do go out, I generally enjoy it.

I'm very close to my family. I spent the last 10 years caring for my Grandma as she was aging. She died this summer after a lengthly illness, and now I'm at the point where I'm ready to begin a new chapter of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I've been working as a handyman for 9 years and I have been a proud homeowner for seven years! I also just recently started property managing another rental home on my own and have been enjoying it.

I also took college classes in IT (computer) networking and am fairly good with computers.

I spend a lot of my free time working on projects with my neighborhood association, particularly maintaining two outdoor ice rinks in the winter. I also swim indoors once or twice most weeks in the cooler months both for exercise and fun.

Every Halloween I also do a small Haunted House for families in my neighborhood. This year will be the 21st year that I have done the haunted house, and it's one of my favorite activities of the year!
I’m really good at
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fixing things around the house.
Tinkering with computers.
Learning new things
The first things people usually notice about me
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I seem "different", which unfortunately scares a lot of people away before they even check me out. I tend to appear shy at first, but once people get to know me, they usually like me. I'm hoping that eventually someone will look beyond the first impression and get to know me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Harry Potter series. I don't have cable (and don't really miss it), but I do have a couple of favorite TV shows: Big Bang Theory, and Person of Interest. I like a variety of music and I like most food and don't have a particular favorite. Believe it or not, I actually don't like chocolate though (I know, you'r probably going "WHAT?")
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My job
My house
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Myself, my past, and my future hopes and dreams.
What I might want to build or change on my house some day
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding after a long week. For the most part. Most Fridays I end up either swimming at open swim or hanging around the house, although I do occasionally go to an interesting show or other event.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have mild Asperger's. The biggest way this has affected my life is that I have had trouble getting comfortable going out and socializing with others. I have worked hard to overcome most of this, and I live a fairly normal life. If this turns you off, you have no idea what you are missing. Everyone who has gotten to know me seems to like me a lot.
You should message me if
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You want to talk to a nice guy and get to know me better