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jae_phoenix

31 F Los Angeles, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 21–42
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:53am
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Pacific Islander
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Scorpio, and it matters a lot
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a fierce femme queer, Enjoying the exploration of gender expression, fluidity, and the act of breaking down the binary of gender normativity one performance at a time. Some roles I like to play, including but not limited to: father, mother, child, son, daughter, wifey, top, bottom, switch, forever lost boy, prodigal daughter to the city of angels, witchy wizard, hard femme, drag butch, home maker, feminist, dancer, spoken word poet/performer, healer, earth care taker, social activist.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to enjoy each moment as it comes. Day to day, moment to moment. Soaking in all the experience that comes with this body existing in this space in all the ways It does.

Working on some projects involving poetry, zines, children's books and graphic novels. I've got a lot of aspirations as a writer. I really want to get to a place in my life that I can chase them down without the struggle of trying to survive simply day to day barreling down my throat.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The deep Exploration of things;

(Meaning I'm not necessarily good at all these things just yet, (some I am) but I'm good at exploring things, working towards being good/proficient/healthy with the following)

Relationships
Space
Emotions
Nature
Ideas
Politik
Love
Sex
Philosophy
Media
Entertainment
Mischief
Music
Creativity
Poetry
Social networking
Activism
Queerness
Parenting
Home-making
Cooking
Gogo dancing
Topping
Bottoming
Feminism
Magic
Children's books
Collectives
Zines
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My boots. I've always got killer boots.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books:
Unbearable Lightness of Being by Milan Kundera, Kafka on the shore and The Wind up Bird Chronicles by Murakami The prophet by khalil Gibran. Self by Yaan Martel. letters to a young poet by Rainer Maria Rilke. Graphic novels of all kinds!

Music:
Radiohead, Bon Iver, Mos Def, Kendrick Lamar, Drake, Little Dragon, John Coltrane, Ella Fitzgerald, Stevie Wonder, Maxell, James Blake, Fleet Foxes, Local Natives, Tupac, Outkast, Grizzly Bear, Kanye West, Black Starr, Foxygen, Nina Simone, Explosions In The Sky, The Weeknd, Why?, The Beastie Boys, Erykah Badu, Laura Mvula, Valarie June, Sbtrkt, Chet faker, Cat Power,

Tv:
Arrested Development, The walking dead, Game of thrones, Dexter, Breaking bad, Modern Family, Sons Of Anarchy, Firefly, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, Flight of the Chonchords, Bobs Burger, Broad City, Last Week Tonight, Orange is the new black, Weeds, house of cards,

Movies:
Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless mind, Amalie, The Lord of the Rings, The Dark Knight, Be Kind Rewind, Nacho Libre, Django Unchained, Ray, Hook, Forrest Gump, Knocked Up, Sleepwalk With Me, The Matrix, Harold and Maude, dancer in the dark,

Food:
I love juicing, clean eating, (gluten free, no dairy) Thai, Vietnamese, Mexican.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Emotional connection
Healthy food/water
Stable home/safe spaces
Queer identity
The ocean
My child
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My personal journey and development. How I can be a better person everyday, how I can deepen my ability to love all those I see and encounter.

How I can deepen my relationship with my body and how I relate to myself sexually and emotionally.

The present moment. Dreaming up the future. And learning from my past.

feminism, trans identity, gender politics, astrology, spiritual transformation, poetry, queer activism, tearing down the patriarchy, and ways to connect and attract new and beautiful queers into my wonderful life!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing really typical about my Friday nights. I'm always on the move between cities and have lots of different circles of friends as well as totally content being by myself at home
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I always thought of myself as a bottom, I might be a top.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you are a magical queer that is looking to share some of your magic with others and create safe and sacred spaces to explore friendship, love, or any kind of magical connection.

If you want to be FriendZ homoloverz, transloverz, kink partners, community builders, dance party makers, booty booty shakerz, femme4femme, 420 partakers, LA foodie eaterz, gender fierce mischief makerz, or any other kinds of explorations you might be into! Don't be shy to reach out! I don't bite, (unless you want me to)

If you are into kink exploration and play partners In the context of poly relationships, I'm up for the adventure.

I'm looking to expand my community with queer Folks in Los Angeles! If that is you, please reach out, I'm looking for ya! Let's build!!!'