PLZ READ THIS B4 CONTACTING ME!!! THANKS
I think it would be great to make some new friends...I have way too much time on my hands and really dont like being alone much. U can never have too many good friends, but for the most part...
Im hoping to find something serious. So if your wanting to move fast, be sexual, Its not gonna happen! Im wanting something real and that will last and Im not looking to hook up. Dont get me wrong though, I am a very affectionate and very sexual person, but till I find that right person for me, Im not wanting to go there! I am not looking to rush into a relationship. I know what Im looking for so I will wait till I find the right man for me and I for him....but in saying that...I REALLY DO HOPE TO FIND HIM!!!!

The kind of man Im hoping to meet is someone who is down to earth, open, honest, and real! Isnt afraid to share their feelings and thoughts with me. (A good communicator is key!) A man who doesnt tell me what they think I might want to hear. I hate that!!! ....just be honest about what you think and feel... I that!!! I also like someone who is fun and outgoing, but also just likes to relax at home cuddle and just watch movies. I really would like to meet someone that I can share my life w/ someone who is sweet, knows how to treat a woman, can make me laugh, and will be there for the good and the bad times. Someone that I can grow w/ and vice versa and could be my best friend too. Obviously I know what I want in a man, but I realize no one is perfect and relationships take work, but at the same time, should be easy too...if we both do our part..it will work! I think when we find each other we will know. Cant wait to meet u! It would make life all that much better!!!

My 8 yr. Marriage ended in April 06, but we are still good friends, which is good seeing that we have a daughter together.She lives with her father for now, shes such a daddys girl! I see her often, though.
*If u want to have a child or more children....then u should! I could never and would never take that away from anyone, but I know I do not want to have anymore...I am blessed to have had her and want to finish helping raise her (and will help w/ urs if u have any) and spend the rest of my yrs w/ the man I love!

As for my personality....I have a lot of sides to me and a lot of different likes. Im out going, sweet, but can stand up for myself and wont be disrespected, I love to laugh and make ppl laugh too! I can be a bit of a dork! Im pretty open minded...I try very hard to be patient and understanding of others, but hate it when ppl take advantage of that! I try to treat others the way I want to be treated.
I can be loud @ times, but know when to be quiet, I am a kid @ heart, but know when to be an adult, I like to talk a lot, but Im also a good listener and a great friend! I try very hard to be and stay positive. Its not always easy, but its important to do our best to be. Although I will admit I hate my body (Im a BIG girl), but I love me, the body... I can work on and when I do...Ill be doing it for myself. Although it would be great to have a workout partner.

Dislikes: Liars, cheaters, players, and ppl who say they will do something, but dont! Actions speak louder then words!

Dont contact me plz if: You dont have a current picture of yourself up, dont live in or near Long Beach, Ca, are in a relationship, and/or looking for sex!...If for any reason Im not interested...I wont respond to u...dont want to waste anyones time...but u never know if u dont try...right? Well, thanks for understanding and good luck to us all!

IF U TOOK THE TIME TO READ ALL OF THIS....THANK U!!!!!

Music:I like all kinds of music especially if I can dance to it! 80's, some hip-hop,pop,but the bands Im into the most are....Siouxsie & The Banshees,vnv nation,combichrist, Depeche mode,cocteau twins,The cure, NIN, Tori amos, Echo & the bunnymen, Tones on tail,creatures,sugarcubes/ bjork, massive attack,dead can dance,pixies,charlatans uk, sneaker pimps,peter murphy,sinead Oconnor,yeah yeah yeahs,frou frou,coldplay,U2, love the 80's...Ill stop here cause this could go on for days!

Books: Not a big reader

Movies: I pretty much love all of John hughes movies... pretty in pink, break fast club, sixteen candles, some kind of wonderful, but I also loved garden state, bandits, drop dead fred, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, if lucy fell, interveiw with the vampire, pirates of the caribbean, matrix, tombstone, p.s. I love you, Bad Santa, goonies, and again...this can go on forever!!!

Food: Almost anything, but love...Mexican, Chineese, & Italian.

Family, Friends, Food/water, laughter, Communication and LOVE!

Finding the right man to share my life w/...and how to better myself as a person.

You have simular interests, have a good heart, are honest, a loyal person, NOT A PLAYER!!!