.It was a gorgeous fall day and I spent part of running around Tower Grove . I felt so alive, the fall colors were gorgeous and the breeze was rustling the leaves.
I want to live life, and live it in an authentic way. I'm looking for creative, authentic, kind, thoughtful people to share the experience with. I wouldn't mind if a relationship/connection became sexual/romantic but there are many ways to experience connection and share experience. .prefer letting the character of the relationship grow organicaly without preconceived ideas of what should take place.
I have alot i love about my life, not that its a perfect world, i am sometimes lonely, sad anxious, depressed.... I feel I am learning how to take care of myself, Health consciousness is a primary focus.
I love my work and feel like i am incredibly lucky to have an amazing job doing massage right up the street from my house. The longer I have practicedassage the more I love doing it. I'm always looking for something new to add into the mix. I'm very independent but that has been a process. Sometimes I feel like I'm getting old but then being 50 has its advantages.
I think St Louis is an awesome city to live in. I bought my 120 year old house 17 years ago and totally love it. ISouth City has gotten to be such a fun place to live.
I ride a bike all over the place. I try not to drive. So if it's not raining I'm supposed to ride. If it's 15 degrees out i'm still riding and sometimes overdressed. I love to ride, it's a thrill. It gets me out in the elements andflakes me feel more alive. I'm not one of those people who feel they need to stop for lights if its not necessary. II know it pisses people off, but hey, get out of your car and ride.
I try not to buy new stuff as much as possible
Almost all of my furniture came from the alley.
If i'm going to build something with lumber i can usually find what i need in the alley if i didn't already pick it up and store it in my garage.
I love to build with used lumber. My attic floors got refinished last fall and all the oak flooring that i used to repair broken or cracked boards came from the alley. I'm pretty handy with a circular saw and drill. Now I'm making friends with the table and chop saw. I built several pavilions and an outdoor kitchen that have made my yard very functional.
Lately I have been playing tennis. I kind of suck but playing 3 times a week seems to be improving my game. I'm often looking for partners.
I love to get out and hike/birdwatch
Shaw Nature Reserve at Gray Summit is one of my favorite places close to St Louis. Huzzah wildlife area is another, and only a 70 minute drive. Want to go out and hike with me?
I identify with being polyamorous but I don't really like labels unless they are defined in a relative way. Ive been facilitating A polyamory discussion group (PoDGE) for the past 7 years. The conversation can be pretty interesting.
I'm into freedom but also commitment, respect, compassion, honesty, openness, transparency, humor. I wouldn't mind finding a primary but I'm not really convinced that heirarchical labels fit with my belief system. I lwould love to have someone to spend the night with, watch movies in bed.
I like meeting new people. Walki in the park? a bikeride perhaps, dinner, wine/hot tub?
Maybe you want to come to the next PoDGE (polyamory discussion group) meeting, or a massage party. I've been known to have great parties (well most of the time). Massage, fire, music?