I am Jaida Nicole, an intelligent, sensual, mature, fun-loving intergendered woman. I am looking for a serious relationship as well as nice friends to hang out with - I find myself on an incredible journey of discovery. I find everyday to be a blessing.
In that I have physical attributes of both males and females it might be helpful to classify myself as intergendered.
OK- let's clarify this - my body looks amazingly female, and very youthful for my age - very convincing, with a female physique - complete with small boobs and completely female hips and long slender sexy legs - but I also possess a penis and no vagina . If that disturbs you - don't bother to read on.
I am a gender outlaw. Both female and male descriptors do not adequately define me. I am genderfluid. I can move seamlessly between genders. I am comfortable with all parts of myself, both female and male. I have no interest in having surgery to modify my body. I have been known to duck in to a Starbucks bathroom and come out of it, convincingly and attractively, as the 'other' gender, in less than 5 minutes!!! No. I never feel like a Dr. Jekyll and Ms Hyde. I love diversity.
As a woman I present myself as feminine although I do have a tomboyish streak to me. I think I have a great sense of humor and admire that attribute greatly in my friends as well. I try not to take myself too seriously. I find intelligence to be incredibly sexy. I love hanging out with men as well as women. I love browsing in bookstores but I could very easily be persuaded to shop for short slinky dresses as well. You can often tell the mood I am in by looking directly at my shoes. When I find a pursuit that I am passionate about, I know practically no limits. I pride myself in being loving, kind and compassionate. I take my friendships very seriously and you will find me extremely loyal and honest. I am hoping that this will lead to a serious love interest and/or strong lasting friendships.
I was asked to be on a panel recently at a local college where four individuals including myself discussed their journeys in the world beyond the 'gender binary'
Here are some of the words of the attendees reported to the moderator the day after the panel met the students
"The gender panel that I went to last night had the most interesting and motivating speakers that I have ever heard."
"To see how much these individuals have overcome and how successful their journey is really intensifies the meaning of life."
"The panelists are some of the strongest people I have ever encountered. Today they live with no regrets, and society needs to understand that we must accept everyone."
"The panel tonight has me viewing life from a whole new perspective."
Here is a video of me
(It is in FLV format if your computer cant play that there are utilities online to convert it for you)
I am sensual, intelligent, and intersexed.